i really really like my best guy friend but he has a girlfriend and he is going to his new school to be with her. i know he used to like me but ovbiously since he has a girlfriend now he doesnt. i really thought we were meant to be together. how is it supposed to end? plus she is cheating on him! and i dont know how to tell him that without sounding jealous or mean!
2006-08-08 13:51:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him find out about the cheating part on his own. Those things always come out in the open eventually. If you are the one who opens that can of worms, it WILL appear obvious to him that you have an agenda for it. In the meantime, if you really want to be his girl, just stay there in the background, and always be that person who is there when he needs you, and believe me, he will notice. Because in the end, it always come down to that one person who was always there through thick and thin, and that's usually the girl who gets the guy. Patience is a virtue! Good luck!
2006-08-08 13:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you tell him you will sound jealous and mean, let the relationship run its course, he'll figure out sooner or later what kind of girl she really is and he'll be single again before you know it, just be patient. If you were meant to be together it will happen, if not... at least you'll still have him as a friend. Just don't try to force the break up because you'll be the one that looks bad. Good luck
2006-08-08 21:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. This sounds like a drama meant especially for television. You don't want your school year to be full of messy drama over boys and their girlfriends and who likes who and who used to like who - find someone else to fix your affections on. Some people are just meant to be 'friends' and friends only.
2006-08-08 20:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd forget about him and pursue a single guy. If his girlfriend is cheating, and if he hooks up with you, it's more likely to be a rebound thing.
However, if he dumps his cheating girlfriend and dates you and then you become his girlfriend; doesn't mean he can't cheat.
Like the saying... what goes around, comes around.
2006-08-08 20:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it alone....what happens, happens. if you were meant to be together, then it will happen naturally...if you try to break them up, it will just get worse. don't say anything about her cheating on him either, i would just stay out of it. just be there for him as a friend, and he will appreciate it
2006-08-08 20:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by pirate_holla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay away from him if you cannot maintain simple friendly relationship. as a friend you may inform him about his gf's cheating. but be sure its accurate and true.
still try to stay away from him.
2006-08-08 20:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you love him so go for it the worst thing that can happen is he will walk a way good luck
2006-08-08 20:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find a new one.Stay away from boys with girlfriends .
2006-08-08 20:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else, there are plenty of men out there.
2006-08-08 20:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with her leave it alone!
2006-08-08 20:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy 24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋