My boyfriend has been lock-up for 8 weeks and I just found out he has been seeing another woman but his mother says the only reason he is dealing with this woman is because he needs money to get out. He is about to lose is job, his apartment, his truck is $900 to get out the inpound. So do I believe is mother and just think its about the money are is it more serious than what she is saying. I haven't been to see him because I'm too mad to talk to him. I need some advice
2006-08-08 13:22:23 · 10 answers · asked by Feelsolost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are on the right track. Leave him where he is and get on with your life. If he is dealing with this other woman just for the money, think what kind of life yoou will have with him. Get out now!!!!
2006-08-08 13:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by sawmill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you were a little girl did you dream of growing up and having a man that would break laws that would end him up in jail? So why do you allow yourself to be with a guy like that?
That was your first signal.
Then, you find out (from a source other than him) that he's seeing another woman. But supposedly only USING her for his personal gain. Is that the character of a kind, trustworthy person?
You may want to really evaluate your self worth and decide if you want to be close with a person who winds up in jail and uses people. You might be his next victim.
Be careful.
2006-08-08 13:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use your noodle. If he has been locked up for eight weeks, how did he meet this other woman? For her to fork over that kind of money, there is more to it than his mother is telling you. Leave the bum and get on with your life. Guys like him are a dime a dozen and you deserve so much better.
2006-08-08 13:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he is just using another woman for money, don't you think maybe you find a better class of person to be with? Jail, using people, maybe cheating.... What a catch you've got there.
2006-08-08 13:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL FIRST OF ALL. THIS IS NO NEW CHICK.WHAT WOMEN IN HER RIGHT MIND WOULD GIVE A MAN SHE JUST MET MONEY. YOU NOT GOING TO SEE HIM IS STUPID. GO DOWN THERE AND GET WHAT EVER QUESTIONS YOU NEED ANSWERED BY HER. I`M PRETTY SURE YOU WILL SEE HER DOWN THERE .BE A LADY ABOUT IT(I DON`T WANT YOU TO GET LOCKED UP.) WHATS GONNA HAPPEN WHEN HE COME HOME HE MIGHT FEEL OBLIGATED TO HAVE SEX WITH HER.A REAL MAN WILL NOT STOOP SO LOW TO GET MONEY FROM A WOMEN. IT`S CALLED BEING A MAN!!!!!
2006-08-08 13:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by seanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him like a hot rock!!!
2006-08-08 13:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no
let him rot in there
2006-08-08 13:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Homeboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is in someone to cheat they will cheat...if he is using her for money than he is probably playing both of you. girl, please do not trust him....he is scandalous!!!
2006-08-08 13:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HES A WHORE
2006-08-08 13:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no been there done that
2006-08-08 13:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by robert899295 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋