We've been together for three months. Everything stated off great, he wanted to take me to New York and the Key's. About a month ago things started to change, right when he got back from a 10 "vacation" with his ex / friend (he was helping her move for grad school). When he got back I was upset, we talked and he told me that he considers us just dating but we call each other girlfriend and boyfriend because neither of us are or want to be seeing other people. Just within the last week things have started to get worse, we haven't seen each other in days after sleeping together, eating together, going out together, almost everyday since we met. I ask him to go out with me days in advance, he always ends up doing something else. I told him I was hurt that we don't see each other and that I feel like he doesn't want me. The first time he told me all the right things, he wants to be with me, he cares about me, but time when I told him he got upset and said we need to talk.
2006-08-08 13:14:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what should I do?
2006-08-08 13:15:00 · update #1
It's time to talk. It sounds as if he may be distancing himself from you. I don't want to jump to any conclusions, but it doesn't sound good. Don't accuse him of anything, just.......... get your concerns out. Make hime commit to a private sit down. These talks are awful in public setting, don't let him coerce you into meeting wherever he might be hanging out at because he "doesn't have time".
2006-08-08 13:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by theenormusnorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum. He's either in it for a good time or a long time. Sounds like you want to be serious with him but I don't think he's feeling that. I say don't waist your time ! Let him choose what he wants and go from there. Don't be stupid and wait for him to see you.... Move on and find a man that wants to be by your side day and night !! Take Care
2006-08-08 13:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by smorgan1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's pulling away from you. It may be that he has unresolved feelings about his ex. But whatever it is, the best thing you can do is give him space to work it out for himself. This is a guy thing. The more you pester him, the more he will draw away. Don't call him and don't wait for him to call you. Get on with your life, give him time and see what happens.
2006-08-08 13:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it. Seriously, it's not going to get better so don't waste any more time with him and just end it is my advice. Things will get better and talk to someone if you need to, but you deserve someone who treats you well. Good luck :)
2016-03-27 04:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but you are a booty call. Move forward, apparently he has move on with his ex,stop hanging on to his every word. he is a young man with wild oats to sew. This maybe hard but move forward or this man will always play you for a fool.
2006-08-08 13:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you should ahve told him you real feelings cause if you have told him he would have undrestood you better and did you actually get to know him befor you slept with him in dont really know but he will understand you later you can e mail me at sharika_robertson@yahoo.com
2006-08-08 13:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by savannah_dime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sound like he is losing interest. I would start seeing other people. I know it sounds cruel but you want someone whom wants you just as much. Good luck.
2006-08-08 13:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds liek he wants to break it off, you go do it first, if that will make you feel better, therre are plenty of men out there, don't worry.
2006-08-08 13:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by hahaha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone i kno from n.y. anyway, i would let it go before u get to involved and get hurt even more than u already are. chances r he was doin more than just helping her move.sorry hon but let him go.
2006-08-08 13:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by bitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose weight
2006-08-08 13:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by huxtable_grimm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋