Well, what should i do to know if i am a nice person or not???
2006-08-08 13:00:08 · 31 answers · asked by Valkyrie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
run for the senate
2006-08-08 13:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sheefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Win friends???? Not sure you can win friends.. but you can get friends.. if you just be yourself. Influence people???? Not sure you can purposely influence people either. Why would you want to influence people? Just be yourself.. you will get friends.. but the main objective here is remember this: To have a friends, you have got to be a friend. As far as knowing if you are a nice person or not.. .. take a look back on the things you have done in the past and if you can honestly say that you are proud of who you are, where you have been and the way you have treated others.. then I would say .. yes you are a nice person. Good Luck.
2006-08-08 20:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its not what you read from books its just how you feel about yourself, you shouldn't bring yourself down thinking your not good enough, or your friends don't like you because your not nice enough because maybe just maybe they're missing out on a more special person then making a more "popular" friend. You don't have to know if your nice or not you can always ask true friends that you trust in and its okay if you think that your not nice sometimes because of what you did the other day but don't think that way just because maybe your friends a re ignoring you, the more you think about it the more your bringing yourself down. When you maybe go through a situation that your friends are dumping you for a more "popular" friend well don't even be sad these people aren't worth your tears or you because true friends stick by you and are in your heart forever. You should go find new friends that maybe are true and generous. Well I hope my advice helped because I've been through situations like these.
2006-08-08 20:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by Daisyx_girlx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You win friends by being Honest, and respectful, Listen more than talk, give good advice that does not involve your person opinion, but the best intention of your friend. Don't Give advice about relationships, that are bad, always support a friend if they are goign to a relationship crisis, never bash the other person. Dont bash people, if you talk trash about people to people, they think, or know you are talking trash about them behind their back.
If you do feel ill against someone, talk to them, or ask them why they do what they do, but be polite, they might end up your best friend.
Never wait for someone else to say sorry, appologise first, and admit your fault, or your portion of the fault.
Dont date your friends! dont date your friend's ex's.
Be Honest, dont cheat at school or at work.
If you make plans with a friend, KEEP THEM.
Invite multiple friends over at at ime, and play truth or dare, or other games, that envolkes honestly, or gives equal humility, Humility is key to a lasting friendship, friends aren't embarassed to be around other friends, and do things.
Be open, Dont stress about how you look, Dont go around saying how UGLY you look today, or dont complain about every day little problems, that probably EVERYONE has. "i'm tired", "i didn't get home till like kasdhkaljdsa".
You can tell if you're a nice person, if people say hi to you often, or call you for advice, or look towards you for opinions, about real life situations. not about clothes, or for cool thigns to do. But for REAL problems.
2006-08-08 20:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by anjui63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go into it by trying to win and influence them, they are not your friend as you are not theirs. You have just started the friendship off in distrust and deceit. The only way to influence is to make them believe something that isnt really there that intrigues them. It is very hard to find true friends. You will find that in a lifetime, after its all said and done, you will only be able to count on one hand how many people have truely been your friend.
2006-08-08 20:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by 1authority 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a nice person it will show on it's own. the best thing you can do to win friends and influence people is to be yourself and show them that you are sincere. That you are who you are and you aren't going to pretend to be someone else. Most people like others that are upfront and honest and don't try to be someone they are not.
2006-08-08 20:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the old addage, treat others as you would want to be treated.
If you are true to your convictions and morals, there is NOTHING that will prevent you from succeeding. Be honest. Do the right thing even when people aren't looking.
Nice life lesson that serves in all areas of our existence.
2006-08-08 20:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good God.........are you for real???? You need to get some education and learn how to communicate......do you have a screw loose or something? To "win friends and influence people"......well, you need to do a lot of self-improvement.
2006-08-08 20:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Increase your sphere of influence by making "emotional deposits". These are acts of kindness without expecting anything in return. This really works!
2006-08-08 20:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by extremelyradicalman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the book how to win friends and influence people, seriously, its a book.
2006-08-08 20:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if your nice of not. The way people respond to you should also let you know if your being nice or not!
2006-08-08 20:05:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋