Ive been sexually active for some time now, and no orgasm. Its so frustrating. I also dont orgasm through oral. weve tried several positions but it just doesnt happen. Ive just sorta gotten used to the idea that its not gonaa happen for me so its not even an issue during sex anymore. I just dont want to rule it out completely. Is there something wrong with me? What can i do?
2006-08-08 12:45:20 · 15 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can only orgasm with a vibrator (or the showerhead, lol). but i dont use it often because i dont want to make my clit less sensitive.
2006-08-08 12:53:03 · update #1
There's nothing wrong with you, no worries. It's tougher for some of us than others.
Try experimenting alone, when you don't feel pressured to have one. If you can't get there by self-stimulation, try a vibrator. (Don't laugh, these are awesome!) Then get your honey involved, because guys love to watch us pleasure ourselves. They also enjoy using vibrators on us. Since it's always been an issue with me too, my guy is relieved to have some of the pressure off him.
Good luck!
2006-08-08 12:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Shelli 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That anwser to that question for you is not very hard to anwser,
I really must say that if you are having trouble having a orgasm it is not because there is something wrong with you maybe you are just not ready for this just yet, It would need to be a very special moment to have this happen, in order for you to have an orgasm you would need something to make you hyped up and excited and you need to consider trying out on your special nite to go longer then 2 hours something might just happen ... ;)
2006-08-08 19:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity at 17. I didnt have my first orgasm til I was 20. you need to have sex with someone that can do it right. Honestly girl a lot of these men out here dont know what the hell they are doing!
2006-08-08 19:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by BigBrownEyez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry baby doll.
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he has a ton of Bi chicks to help you out. The first thing is to be in control of your sexuality. With out that you wont nut no matter how hard you try.
never heard of a vibrator doing that before
2006-08-09 19:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by St Guido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. Many women don't reach orgasm via intercourse.
I think you should work on your masturbation techniques. Once you learn how to give yourself an orgasm, you can teach your boyfriend how to give you one. Check out these articles.
2006-08-08 19:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get in touch with your body, and what makes you have an orgasm. If you have no idea, then it's time to find out how to have one.
Once that's done, hopefully, you can instruct your lover, how to achieve that result.
2006-08-08 19:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong, your guy may just need a little help finding the right spot. Don't be afraid to give him a little guidance. And make him slow down a bit, it takes longer for women.
2006-08-08 19:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by densil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women can not obtain an orgasm easily, I was in my early forties when I had my first...it took some extremely kinky sex to achieve it, and ya know what...I HAVE NOT LOOKED BACK YET!
2006-08-08 19:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're man doesnt have the size package and/or the skillz needed to take care of business for you... You need something more, something extra and he's just not doing it for you... Let me know if want to chat some more about this...
2006-08-08 19:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well do you orgasm when u masterbate? do U masterbate? IF not thats what u need to start doing,, explore your body more, u just dont have the mind body connection yet, it mite not get there but self exploration is probably where to start
2006-08-08 19:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋