just asking
2006-08-08 12:24:40 · 16 answers · asked by scotttaylor41 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Scammed - they should tell you before that.
2006-08-08 12:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably feel sad for the person. I've worked with people with disabilities so I'm aware that often they are so in their skin , ( comfortable with..the disability ) that they don't see there disability as a disability. When I say I would feel sad it's because I know from experience there is usually a story behind the disability .I have a great deal of respect for all persons with disabilities because I don't think I would be able to cope as well as I see others who have disabilities. The truth is we all have disabilities some are just more visible than others. I just try to treat everyone with the same respect, and friendliness I would wish to be shown.
2006-08-08 14:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think they would be used to ALL sorts of reactions and they would fore warn the blind date.... unless of course they have been rejected much too often by revealing the disability before hand. in which case, i might try an online dating site.
as far as how i personally would feel. i probably wouldnt have the guts to go on any blind date. then i think the whole evening would be a struggle because i would be thinking about how i cant belive they didnt tell me, or whoever set me up didnt tell me.
2006-08-08 12:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a disability, and the main things about it are that i walk slowly and im shorter. if i went on a blind date (which i dont think i would), id try to make sure they knew before, to avoidme or them feeling uncomfortable. however, if i didnt have a disability, i would still feel ok with them, but i would rather know in advance. if they are a nice person, i dont think it matters though. everyone deserves to have the same opportunities.
2006-08-08 12:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by useful idiot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice if the friend informed you ahead of time. But I'd still attend the date (the venue may need to be changed depending on the persons disability).
2006-08-08 12:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd stay on the date. you don't have to go out with them again if you don't want to. who knows, maybe you could end up having a great time. many people i know with disabilities, you forget they have one once you get to know them because you get to know them and thier personalities. as long as they don't let it be an excuse for living thier life. i'd say give the person a chance, if you go on a blind date you should be up for anything to begin with!!
2006-08-08 12:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No different than if, like most people,they've lie about themselves in some way. Go on the date, it's the person you're seeing.
2006-08-08 12:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what the difference would be...although I would rather they tell me first. As long as a physical disability isn't affecting their mind, I don't really have much of a problem.
2006-08-08 12:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by bratty001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still date that person. They are still a human being that deserves to be loved and cared about just like everyone else.
2006-08-08 12:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd want to know ahead of time. I'd probably still go on the date, but honesty is really important to me.
2006-08-08 12:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on the date you could meet a good friend that way
2006-08-08 12:29:48 · answer #11 · answered by rick a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋