Should I or shouldn't I?

Question

I have a mad pash for a guy at work. Work and relationships... what say you?

we lunch together, sit together, travel home together and tonight he took me for a drink after work

Answer 1

Go for it, use it, love it, adore it, have fun with it to the max.

Answer 2

You must not really be having that mad pash since you have chosen to raised the query in Yahoo answers. People may or may not take cognizance of it and if they did by the time the answer reaches you the pot would remain boiling? Impossible.
You remember the story of a Greek rider. He approached a group which had gathered around a pit discussing something seriously. When he enquired he came to know that the pit had suddenly appeared and was accompanied by a celestial message that only if some worthy would be sacrifices then and then alone it would fill up or remaining a yawning gap and would go on becoming wider an deeper. It seemed they were discussing pros and cons who should be sactificed each citizen emphasising how his continuation is indispensible for the society. The rider took his horse to the edge and jumped in with the horse. But the pit closed up and the rider remained above ground and the celestial message came that gods had just tested their loyalties.You appear to be one of the townsmen(women)Moreover for all you know it may just be a crush and perhaps you may even be disillusioned and regain your equinaumity. What are you wating for--for the celestial message?

Answer 3

As long as the relationship does not interfere with work or work interfering with the ralationship then it can work. The reason some don't work out is because either the couple brings their work issues home or they bring their home problems to work.

Answer 4

it's messy all the way around. it's awkward while things are going right... because you have work to do but you want to be near each other.. and it's a rumor mill, because people at work are going to be talking about it CONSTANTLY... and then if something goes wrong.. well, you can imagine.

just be prepared for the drama... and bring some rumor repellent-- you're gonna need it.

Answer 5

I'd say no, but I'm crap at relationships anyway so don't take my word for it.
I know a few long term couples in my co. and a few that just broke up after a few years [myself included], and then isn't very awkward ... taking baby steps would be my best advice

Good luck on that !

Answer 6

How much do you like your job? I say go for it, but if it doesn't work out...if he turns you down it could be very awkward. I think if he turns you down though you can say thats fine, then try to act sexy at work to make him want you, but don't let him know that your doing it for his bennefit. But we are living in the real world so have a good think about it, how much do you really like him? ;-)

Answer 7

Go for it!
I met my fiance at work 9 years ago, i kind of thought it would amount to nothing but we're living together happily and saving for our wedding.
Good luck.

Answer 8

Yes, it can often be messy. But since a huge proportion of people meet their partners through work (I think it's one of the main ways of meeting) - then it obviously can work.

Good luck

Answer 9

I say you should. The worst you could do is try it. You never know he could be the one. If not then you just have to work with him all day everyday. Good luck.

Answer 10

Id say go for it coz u will never no if u dont try
Best of luck

Answer 11

work an relationships dont go together