I'm 16 and last year I met my best friend, Rihanna's 23 year old brother for the first time and I knew I was hooked, but I always saw it as a silly girly crush he was getting married and she was pregnant, unfortunally she lost the baby and they split, Rihanna joked to Ryan (her brother) that I lyked him and I was horrified and tries to laugh it off but as I looked at him his smile was leering. He started txting me alot and invited me around his house alot in secret, but nothing ever happened we just talked. Then one night he told me to tell my parents I was sleeping over Rihanna's but instead go to his, to think I was soo stupid, anyway I went he gave me vodka and told me he loved me, I fell for this and we had sex. I was a virgin. For three months we have bin sleeping together and he makes me do the most horrible things, but says if I don't or tell anyone that he will kill me, I'm so scared and the stupid thing is I still love him, wat shud I do ???????
2006-08-08 11:28:19 · 13 answers · asked by Angel R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should just leave him, this is not a healthy realtionship. If he is making you do things that you do not want to do, it is not right, what are you getting out of this? Do you really think that he loves you if he says that he is going to kill you? I don't think so. Just tell someone that you trust, maybe they can help you, and leave this guy already.
2006-08-08 11:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) If you are known or caught to have sex with him, he is going to jail as you are still a minor. consentious act or otherwise does not make him not guilty of keeping his P>>> in his own pants. He is 23 and old enough to understand the word control.
2) This relation will not last. Look at it this way, I bet the marriage to the previous girl was due to the fact that "I will marry you if you are pregnant" then she lost her baby and therefore there is no longer a need for him to keep the promise. He is a playboy based on the saying
3) He is not in love with you but in sex
4) He is using you as a stepping stone until a better thing comes along
5) To coax you for a drink and in volka, is to induce intoxication on a minor and then to have sex with you. THIS IS DEFINITELY RAPE. I think the government should be observing this site and then arrest your friend.
6) "He makes me do the most horrible things but says if I don't (I assumed it is the wrong english here) or tell anyone that he will kill me. THIS IS ANOTHER THREAT ON A MINOR
WILL SOMEONE REPORT THIS TO THE POLICE AS THERE ARE SO MUCH INJUSTICE BEING DONE HERE
2006-08-08 13:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that and it would probably be good to see his true self and so fast.
never feel or get threatened. get help from friends or family members or he'll balckmail you for the rest of your life and who knows what else!
if you can, dont worry to reveal what has happened. its what that's making him work in threatening you. be strong and you'll be fine. nothing is free as you know by now and be careful the next time.
think nothing of the bad happenings and losing your virginity, its modern day now and just move on and start afresh with wiser thoughts and wisdom.
2006-08-09 02:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you knew her she replaced into like that or she replaced ? if she replaced without notice so she is jealous. you will desire to check together with her and ask her why you appearing like that lat her coach you her motives my be she is suffering sort some ingredient you don't be conscious of approximately than you may help her as buddy . do you fell that she likes you ...decide directly to spend time with you or gust marvelous out with you ? you would be conscious of what to do after it sluggish ... basically be helpful you do no longer loss a buddy ..i made this mistake earlier pls tray many situations
2016-09-29 01:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u pregnant? If u r u r going to get caught. U should stop now and find another guy. U should date my best friends ex-boyfriend Kyle. Let me know. He is single and sexy. Plus he is a good kisser.
e-mail me: Katz_91_31@Yahoo.com
2006-08-08 12:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow....you're in a dangerous situation...get out NOW! Tell someone you really trust. Like your parents. Don't be scared that they'll be upset. They will know what to do. Seriously, you're in a dangerous situation. You need to tell them. Go do it NOW!!!
2006-08-08 11:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Aha! I Caught You! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is a very, very sad case, should you carry on. But no choice, because you claimed that you love him and already offered your body to him. Thus, hopefully only "GOD" can help you. Good luck!
2006-08-08 17:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple. Call the police. You can still love him and want to be with him.
2006-08-08 11:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW! thats serious Sh!t. Leave him! dont EVER let a guy threaten you like that or disrespect you like that. Get eveidences and put his @$$ in jail.
2006-08-08 11:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
call the police thats not even legal
2006-08-08 12:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by tweety 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋