my best friend has had three bfs this year where I have had none. I don't want to be jelous but I can't help it. Whats should I do?
2006-08-08 11:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by IloveDr.Will K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know what would be the funniest thing ever. if the only reason they dated her in the first place was to get to know you. think about it. I had a friend just like that, only thats what she said about my boyfriends. turns out she wasnt that great of a friend.
2006-08-08 11:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by lalablu3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends are overrated...dont settle for less just because you wanna catch up to your friend. The reason she has more then you is prolly cuz she has low expectations in a guy. You im taking it have HIgh expectations, which is good, a boyfriend is someone you get along with well, have things in common, you are mentally and emotionally attracted to, never just physically attracted to .
I mean she had THREE bfs in a year... thats gotta tell you something
I guess my answer here is to just let him come to you...dont go out there and get a bf just because. Remember what i said, the right one will come along if u keep up ur high expectations.
2006-08-08 18:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three in 8 months, and you are jealous? Why? Seems she isn't the one to be jealous of. Those guys aren't that into your friend if they don't stay around but 2.5 months each. Take a chill pill, and enjoy your single life. Don't let a guy be the reason you are happy or sad. Hotties can be amazing (at least the good ones are.) But wouldn't you rather it take some time to find a good one than to be attached to some loser who's going to bale in a month or so?
2006-08-08 18:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by decababe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and meet new people and try new things. New opportunities find us when we least expect it. Be paitent it will happen, and when it does it will have been well worth the wait ......best of luck :-)
2006-08-08 18:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a contest. Just relax, be yourself, and you'll get one eventually. The dating point is quality, not quantity.
2006-08-08 18:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get one and quit worrying about hers. Simple as that.
2006-08-08 18:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by LAS1011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need a bf to be cool! just be you! so what if she has bf! more work for her. Just let it come to you! dont rush it
2006-08-08 18:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its different for everyone! Dont be jealous...your time will come!!! Good luck!
2006-08-08 18:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steal her's
2006-08-08 18:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋