ok this has been happin for weeks now! my friend told me that the girl he has been with is trying to break us up! ive asked him if hes cheatin on me hes says no, but u can never tell when hes telling the truth! please help me!!! i need anwsers!!!!
2006-08-08 11:08:08 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop, breathe deep ,and calm down...
Look, before you break up with him, maybe you should find out the truth, if you say he's with your enemy , maybe she wants you two to break up. It's not his fault, if you truly love him do all you can to make him see the light, boys can sometimes be suckers ( what am I talkin? almost all the time). So, think twice before you make a desion. And btw, don't look too desperate, that way he'll never tell you anything... just say what is on your mind in a sincere way and you'll surely turn him to your side . Best of wishes to you! :)
2006-08-08 11:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mosquito molestator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him of course. There is nothing that can assure you something is going on. Just don't all of a sudden say "Are you cheating on me?!?" because he'll think he doesn't have your trust. But you could say whats going on with him and that gurl. Because you see them getting awfully close in some way. If he doesn't tell the truth. Just dump that fool. Try some investigation first. And see what the word out is. Ask friends and that gurls friends. You'll be surprised how useful it is to get the opinions and FACTS from others. BE SMART! GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-08 11:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is trying to break you up she might be making it appear that he is cheating on you. So if you buy into it without any proof or at least talking to him your enemy will have played you and won. Ask him exactly what is going on and if he says he is telling the truth and you still dont believe him, break up. If you cant trust his word then its probly not going to be any kind of lasting relationship anyway.
2006-08-08 11:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being as tho you kinda talked to him, cause u say that you asked him if he was cheating and he said no, then maybe you need to have a serious conversation with him. If you suspect that maybe he is cheating then I think you should just move on. If he really cared about you, don't you think he wouldn't have been hanging out with Ur enemy? Somethings up with that picture...good luck hun...
2006-08-08 11:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok who do you trust more? your friend or your boyfriend? have you tried talking to this girl first before you claim shes the enemy? seems like you may be jumping the horse a little to soon. talk with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. if he cant take into consideration as to how you feel about this and the way you feel about this girl then its best he is no longer your boyfriend. another thing..... how you so sure its not your friend isnt trying to breaking you 2 up? its possible...
2006-08-08 11:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. If he's hanging out with "the enemy" he can't be trusted. My BF had better know better than to socialize with "the enemy". If you suspect that he is cheating, you don't trust him and you are probably wise not to. A relationship can not prosper under these conditions. He has to go!
2006-08-08 11:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not her its him who is breaking you all up from personal experience it was the unexpected person my enemy friend not the enemy what a shocker and a lesson i will never foget so to say the least cut all their behinds off esp. if he khows you are bothered by the situation move on to someone bigger and better!
2006-08-08 13:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by sexysummer34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl all i can say is trust you're gut feeling. If you suspect he's cheating then he most likely is. Guys never tell the truth. I think their to afraid to. That's why men suck!!!!
2006-08-08 11:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Broken hearted in the bronx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might as well do nothing about it. Women have the tendency to be attracted to the wrong guys. It seems one way or the other, whoever you're with will do this or something similar to you. That's the world we live in...
2006-08-08 11:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by jean_luc_46241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because hes with someone you dont like doesnt mean that hes messin with her . and just because you dislike someone doesnt mean that everyone else around you has to hate them. however i would in no uncertain terms talk to the boy about whats going on because some one has already told you shes trying to break you up.
2006-08-08 11:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋