ok, ive been with this guys for years and i dont ever worry about him at all. like cheating or nothing like that.i dont acuse him at all. IS that a good thing? or do you think he would like me to feel like that i should worry about him finding someone else?.... i know you men hate when you are being acused. but when your girl doesnt worry about you cheating would you like her to think that you can find someone else? talk to me... i guess i want to know is that does he still fell like a man if he has a girl that doesnt worry about that kind of things
2006-08-08 11:02:57 · 25 answers · asked by girl19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is the type that would never do anything sexual with another female then he is a pitiful specimen of a man. Likely he just has you fooled well since you as a female are naturally even more gullible than the stupid masses of men out there. Yes you should show a little concern.
Rahowa
2006-08-08 11:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Hate-Monger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on how you are playing it. After all if it is because you are stating exactly or implying that he could not get anyone else, then that is a bad thing. But if you are saying you trust him that he knows where the love is for him that is a good thing. It can be a fine line. Dont be jealous but at the same time dont act like he could not find someone. That might become something of a challenge. Like I am going to LV to my Dad's wedding. My new wife is not worried because she knows that I would not stray, that and she trusts me and says so. And that does feel good, I may look at a risque show while there, but I will be flying back to her arms. We both know that. Dont ever EVER let him think the only reason you are not worried is that he could never get another woman. No its that you love and trust him, nothing more. Sure he could get other women. Admit it even. But why should he when he has all he needs with you, a woman that loves him, respects and trusts him
If you dont trust him, or treat him in such a way he could not get anyone better, then there will probably be issues in the future
2006-08-08 18:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be concerned. The majority of men take advantage of this situation and start cheating. Now I'm not saying that he is a cheater but if he ever gets that temptation he might do so. Since your not going to question him. Have a little worry once in a while.
2006-08-08 18:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by j1io 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The CORRECT answer is...he's obviously happy with you and loves you...and doesn't cheat....so that's a GREAT thing. There are a million girls who would trade places with you in a second, and a million guys like me who would kill to have a girlfriend like you who isn't the neurotic jealous type. Go be with him tonight and reward him for being one of the good guys, and for God's sake don't try to fix something that's not broken. Otherwise you risk messing up a great relationship.
Hope this helped.
2006-08-08 18:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you don't tell him that the reason you don't worry is because you know he couldn't find anyone else. You'll be fine there is no reason to accuse unless you think he is cheating If just start accusing him he will think you don't trust him and maybe then he will cheat so he can say yes the next time you accuse him.
2006-08-08 18:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by fly on the wall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares about you and does not cheat on you accusing him just mite cause him to cheat. If he is happy with the way things are and you are happy too: DON'T ROCK THE BOAT. Ask him if you still fill all his interest, but make up your mind ahead of time to be happy with his answer no matter what it is. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-08 18:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bothered the hell out of me when my girlfriend thought I was cheating on her.
She felt that I was parkin' my buick in any garage I could find, because she saw something on "Donahue" and that I fit the profile, or she had a dream that I got some other girl pregnant.
I can be sociable without it being a date.
2006-08-08 18:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello dear "girl"!
Why aren't you worried?
Why are you ready to "forgive"?
Have you left yourself to change without improving? I wish this is not the case!
Otherwise, although I try and not use salt, pepper, sugar, still, in life those ingredients could play a role in enjoying taste, similarly are the not "logic" acts that have become necessary in our lives!
2006-08-08 18:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys would probably rather have someone that doesn't worry about their fidelity rather than someone who is constantly on their *** about it.
However, some girls will go to lengths to make their b/f's jealous just to feel like they are wanted. this is not the case for guys.
It's ok not to WORRY, as long as you CARE.
2006-08-08 18:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might be a little worried or you might not ask this question.
Take a moment to clarify what you need in the relationship, and then talk to your partner about your needs.
2006-08-08 18:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋