Me and my signifigant other are both looking to get married, both over 25 and I am ready for him to pop the ? The problem is that he feels it might be too soon. Any suggestions, is there a right time????
2006-08-08 10:12:07 · 18 answers · asked by TR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't rush into it, it is better to take your time than to end up getting a divorce later onl
2006-08-08 10:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right time is when both people are ready obviously. You're ready yay congrats. that's awesome you have come to the point in your life when you are ready to give yourself mind, body and soul to another person. Don't rush him he has to come to this point in his life on his own. It's better to wait an extra year rather than rush into marriage and in a year find out that you actually weren't ready or he wasn't ready. You are still young you have the rest of your life to be married enjoy dating and having a boyfriend because once you're married you'll never have one again. Good Luck! With Time Comes Happiness!
2006-08-08 10:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Trish H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to say when the right time is b/c it depends on the people involved. How long have you and your significant other been dating? If you havent been dating for that long, you should respect the fact that he feels it might be too sooon and not push him. He may also want to make sure that you both want to marry eachother and not that you both want to get married. You are both still young so there is no need to rush things. Besides, the proposal will be much better when you are assured that it is something that he wants to do and not something that you nidged him into.
2006-08-08 10:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're now not competent, then you're simply now not competent. Obviously you each have got to paintings to your debits to end up financially steady. You can sit down down together with her and paintings on a plan on lowering the money owed on each ingredients in order that while the time is proper, either one of you're going to be competent. Speak to a monetary planner, even supposing it is only for your self to get your debt down. Always don't forget, what you spot now's what you're going to get while you're married. IF you're now not allowed to do matters that you simply revel in once in a while, it's going to get even worse as soon as you're married. Think approximately it! I could additionally recommend somewhat holiday on this courting so you'll have a while, you could grow to be now not lacking her in any respect.
2016-08-28 10:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he feels it's too soon, then he's not ready. The right time is when you're both on the same page.
2006-08-08 10:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by wahine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everyone... today it depend a lot on finical reason as well as maturity. And it completely depend on what type of life you want, what type of relation you have and want...
Some people marry in 6 months of know each other.. others take 10 years.
I think in your heart, you already know.
2006-08-08 10:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if he isn't ready and if you keep forcing the issue by bringing it up all the time he will step back farther. Try spending some time with others alone as well as with him. Show your independance and be pleasant about it. That will show him that you are going to live your life pleasing yourself as well as him. If we women or men are too clingy and demanding of our partner we will run them off.
2006-08-08 10:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how long you two have been together. It almost doesn't matter how long you've been together because if you can feel in your heart that it is right and you think that you can truely spend the rest of your life together... go for it. Please be as sure as you can be because marrage should be taken seriously. If he feels he isn't ready don't force him but talk about.
2006-08-08 10:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by sha scrilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that he is honest in his word thought and deeds there is no problem in getting into marriage . It would be better to keep more pace if he did not pressure .Discover the positive & negative thoughts of him behind his pressure . Then decide whether to wait or proceed
2006-08-08 10:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by dhalniranjan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still call him significant other, and, you want to get married,...
uhm.. No you are not ready, not because of age, but becauase you dont care enough about this dude.
He has a good head on his shoulders it seems.
2006-08-08 10:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Marillita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋