has anyone had second thoughts in a relationship??

Question

especially long term relationships? did it work out or did your second thoughts end up leading to the end?

Answer 1

i always have second thoughts

Answer 2

I am in this relationship right now where every day i wonder is this rught for me as we have problems getting naked due to her having bad pains due to endometriosis so sex is on hold right now but i then think shes obviously in pain so how can i think these things. After i see her distress and agony my second thoughts go away but they always come back so what Im trying to say is there is no reason to give up on your partner until they give up on you so stick with it because your demons will soon become the same old feelings as before and yes our relationship has worked out even though i still get these second thoughts still because she still has endometriosis but when they go im glad because she is still the girl i fell for 7 years ago and nothing can change that apart from her i suppose but untill then shes as good as ever

Answer 3

Second thoughts, unlike the legendary second-position, is usually the award winner in these cases. If you have second thoughts about a relationship, be it a long-term relationship, you know you are nearly there...

No relationship is sancrosanct. Trust me, time is not that big a factor

Answer 4

I spent the first couple years of my marriage waiting for it to end. It's because of things that happened in my past. Fortunately, my husband was very patient and understanding with me, and I was able to work some things out with a shrink's help, and things are doing pretty darned good now, if I dare say so myself.

Answer 5

Everyone has had second thoughts

Answer 6

yes, i am having second thoughts now and i really dont know what to do.

Answer 7

i had more than second thoughts and should have listen to my first one