OK, i used to go out with this boy- but all of a sudden he wouldnt talk to me. he never called me or answer my calls. finally a month later he comes over and asks to borrow $150.00, so i gave it to him- then never herd from him again!!! now hes locked up and calls me every day {but i cant answer his calls- to much $$}, so should i get his add. and write him while hes locked up?????? PLEASE HELP**
2006-08-08 10:02:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS, i was in love with him, but i dont know how he felt!!!
2006-08-08 10:10:30 · update #1
man i did the same **** and let my b/f borrow $204.00!!! he still kept in touch but i aint c a dime of my money back. thats why you shouldve asked him what he did with the money. you should write to him sayin wheres my money son? you think this sh** is cute, takin my money and walkin out on me? ***** pleeze! who gon bail u out now?then u should leave!
2006-08-08 10:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by *+*sArAh*+* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First lesson learned: DON'T GIVE MONEY TO ANYONE. IF YOU DO DON'T PLAN ON EVER EVER EVER GETTING IT BACK. You're never going to see that money again.
I don't understand why you want to write him? Is it really about the money or is it something else? I would think long and hard about this. He didn't speak to you for a month and then it was only to get money from you??? Noooooo, you need to forget the money {you'll never see it} and forget HIM.
Why would you want to bother yourself with someone in jail anyhow? If I were you, I'd wash my hands of him and just let him be. How's he going to get the money in jail anyway? He's NOT.
I'm sorry to say this but I don't think he cares much about you or giving you your money back. Trust me, there are guys in the world who wouldn't do this to you. Bait your hook and find a new fishy!!!
2006-08-08 17:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by dlfoster67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! why the hell did you give him money to begin with?? no offense but that was dumb to do. Dont answer his calls and when he gets out and tries to come over dont let him in or answer it! talk to him through a window if you have to so if he tries to barge his way in you can lock it quick and call the cops.
this guy is just using you. dont let him do it any more!
2006-08-08 17:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to write him just once. Tell him you ain't his welfare check or sugar mama or whatever you were to him. Let him know you got a new man that's taking care of you and moving on with your life. Its time to lose the crack addict and grow up a little. Find a real man that's going to treat you like a women.
2006-08-08 17:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by LAS1011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i dont think u should...why did u give him the money in the first place after he totally kicked u out of his life like that? dont talk 2 him, make him see that its his loss...plus what could he want now? he already messed up so im sure nothing good can come out of talking to him...Be careful!
2006-08-08 17:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by lizzbuug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him sweety... let the 150 be the last thing u paid him...hang on and u r gonna pay in more than grands
2006-08-08 17:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by klanto_pahun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow youre vulnerable..girl dump him like a bag of rotten tomatoes...he's just using you ..why do you think he keeps on coming back to you only on his times of needs...when hes doing fine he doesnt even bother to pick up your calls..dont waste your time he will keep on doing it to you..dont even bother to write to him neither..this is where they get all mushy when they are in jail talking bout change this and how hes a different man ..uh huh and once he comes out and uses you to get back on his feet he will dump you...
2006-08-08 17:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good guy wouldn't just come to you when he needs something, he'll come to anytime for anything. Forget about this guy, he's not a good influence on you anyway.
2006-08-08 17:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanna talk to a guy who is only giving u attention cause he's locked away??!!
2006-08-08 17:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you're out $150 for quite a while
2006-08-08 17:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by wanting_more_semich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋