A guy i went out with? I found out that he wsa cheating on me with this girl he always dates after a break up. We really liked eachother. He told me he saw me hugging another guy. The guy who i was hugging was my cousin. I tried telling hime so he cheated on me. What should I do?
2006-08-08 09:58:07 · 43 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, don't look back. Other fish in the sea who know how to handle that kind of situation. If he cheats because of something so trivial it's because he's too insecure. Not a good trait to try to start something with someone about. Be smart, girl. Men are always looking for an excuse so find yourself someone above that.
2006-08-08 10:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw! Just forget about him.He's probably one of those overly jealous guys.I know he was probably real hot but you don't wanna have to deal with someone like that.Believe me it gets to the point that their jealousy will override the smokin' hot looks and it will eventually make you feel guilty of something you shouldn't feel guilty of.I'm not tryin to sound like a negative person I just wanna help you out.It's much better for you to find a guy that not only is good looking but who knows how to trust you.These
are usually keepers.These are the ones who are good lovers.And when I say lovers I mean one who has the potential to fall in love and be committed to you.The guy you are talking about sounds like a prick.He goes back to the same girl after every break up.And I bet every break up is because of his phyco jealousness.This is
just an insecure guy.He's probably stuck on the girl he always goes to after his break ups.Thats
theone he'll probably end up with.Handle this situation by going on about your life.Chances are if you act like you didn't care it will freak him out and he will try and snoop his way back
to you but remember the guy who has the looks and who has the ability to trust is the one you really want.Find you one!!
2006-08-08 10:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When guys or girls are caught cheating, they try to bring up crap about you from like years ago . Oh I seen you huggin this dude last week at such and such place, or they will say my friend said. When they know damn well that the person you were with is family or a friend, and that their friend that told them some info can't be trusted.
He is trying to make you feel guilty becuase he thought that you were cheating on him with this guy (your cousin) he seen you huggin and then he will say thats why he did what he did wtih someone else. Its all mind games a bunch of crap. Move on there are plenty of guys out there. There is no need for you to explain yourself.
2006-08-08 10:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you use all past tense verbs, I'm guessing ya'll have already broken up (if you haven't break up now). So you've done basically all you can do, unless you want to point it out to the girl he cheated on you with that this jerk of a guy will probably cheat on her too if they ever get serious. It's the female courtousy to tell her.
2006-08-08 10:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy was just looking for an excuse to break up with you. Instead of being a man and telling you he wanted to break up, he used this hug as an easy out. Basically, this way he can blame you for the break-up and he won't have to feel bad for hurting you.
2006-08-08 10:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by sunflowers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him go and charge it to the game. He is childish and selfish. He was going to cheat on you anyway. He was waiting for an excuse. He hasn't mastered the art of communication and this will be a drawback in trying to maintain a serious relationship with him.
2006-08-08 10:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should break up with him. He's totally insecure and immature. It wouldn't matter who u were hugging, ITZ JUST A HUG! Plus he cheats on u for it. He's not worth it.
2006-08-08 10:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay,let me get this straight...
He saw you hugging another guy, and felt entitled to cheat on you.
Read that again....
He saw you hugging another guy, and felt entitled to cheat on you.
Obviously, this guy has no moral compass, very bad judgment,
and poor communication skills.
Still don't know how to handle this???
2006-08-08 10:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by kymmisue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend. He's way too insecure. To react to seeing you hug someone by sleeping with an old flame is very vindictive and extreme.
2006-08-08 10:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that loser alone. If you guys aren't a couple anymore, who cares what he thinks. And the biggest fact is that he cheated on YOU. You can't tell me that you don't deserve better than someone who is unfaithful. I'm sure you deserve better.
2006-08-08 10:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋