ive been with my bf for about 4 years now, i was like 19 and he was 23 when we met. he had told me that he had never done it with another girl except only once in quick, nothing big occasion. i kinda believed him. then when we were about 2 months together, the first time he went in, he completely released it, yes dont worry, he was with a condom. i mean there had been no movement, nothing, the second he got in, it all went out. i didnt really put any consideration to what had happened, i mean it only happened that first time but after some time now, ive begun to think...SO my question is....
from what had happened that first night, in plain words, what on earth occured at that moment? was it truly his first first time and he got overwhelmed? or was he just simply turned on?
does this happen to other guys even if it has NOT been their first time??
im a little confused, help!
2006-08-08 09:52:26 · 16 answers · asked by its just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he got excited
2006-08-08 09:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had some short experiences but never like that Im talking 5 mins and then bang but I am no doc so cant say for sure what happened but it could be many reasons but one you diddnt mention is was there foreplay or was it undress make a mess ? try a little fun and games and tease his horny hubbs this could make them wait a little longer and yes this could of been both of your diagnisis so sorry but good luck in your hunt for pleasure
2006-08-08 10:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that happens to guys for quite a while till they get used to having sex. Sensations are just THAT intense and then add in the anticipation and the 'OMG' factor. Hang it all up.
Whether or not it was his 'FIRST" time. Just ask him again. If he says no, then no, it wasn't, but it probably didn't last any longer his real first time. and you were his first REAL relationship.
2006-08-08 09:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tells you that was his first real time, I'd beleive him. My first time lasted longer than that, but not much!! Plus I'm sure he was very excited. I'm in my mid-40's now and sometimes it still happens alot faster than I or my wife would like!
2006-08-08 10:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I go about two days without any, it seems to go a lot faster than if I just got some. Not as fast as you mention, mind you.
2006-08-08 09:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres times where they go too fast for example if they havent gotten any in a couple of days and theres days where they take sooooo long you wanna die i would believe him doubts can only lead to bad thoughts in your head maybe hes being honest give him a chance, but take it from me its more common than youd think
2006-08-08 09:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by LilMissYady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. the brain is the biggest sexual organ we have. it is posible to get so worked up that you just "let it fly" at first contact. Don't worry too much about it. Practice makes perfect!
2006-08-08 09:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do that, it's premature ejaculation. Tell him to wear more than one condom to desensitize himself...or get the desesitizing lotion at the store.
2006-08-08 09:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by goldiemcg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
premature ejaculation. it sounds like it was his 1st time.
some times guys are quick about it, but never 1 sec if they have had sex before.. 1st times are always like that
2006-08-08 09:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call that nutting :)
It's not uncommon esp. in inexperienced guys, just overly excited :)
2006-08-08 09:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry...was just a premature launch....happens to the shuttle all the time.....it will get better....:)
2006-08-08 09:57:49 · answer #11 · answered by Dirtydog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋