Before we started dating we were best friends. We dated for three years and broke up after we tried to move in together. I want to go back to being friends, but I am not sure if it is a good idea or not. We have been seperated for months now and talk every once in a while.
2006-08-08 09:38:09 · 58 answers · asked by thenuge426 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. I tried this once on a planned trip after we talked about splitting up and it was the worse time ever. Try things around home if you want to reconcile, don't be stuck away from home. She ruined my vacation BIG TIME!
2006-08-08 09:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Greg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-19 23:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 19:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you stated that you wanted to go back to being friennds but are unsure of wether it is a good idea so why would you ask her to go on vacation with you if you are unsure of even having the frienedship?? I would not ask an ex to go on vacation with me unless we had already been broken up for over a year and have built a friendship, not while things are still calming down in a way. It could be a bad idea.
2006-08-08 09:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by lovenstrength83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be friends again that is one thing, but asking her to go on vacation with you seems like a big sign that you'd want to get back together. So no to the vacation deal unless that is what you want. But talking with her more shouldn't be as much of a problem if you want to try to be friends again.
2006-08-08 09:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Leave well enough alone. It sounds like while you have both been apart for some time, you need to really let things go and move on. Vacation is time for relaxing and letting your mind rest- if you bring her along with you- it will only complicate your situation, and it will only add tension and frustration- not the kind of vacation I would ask for.
2006-08-08 09:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, it sounds like a tricky situation. If you never dated, it would be much easier, but I think given your history, that a vacation together wouldn't be good. Vacations are exotic, and people aren't themselves, and you might do something you'd regret later. You both might feel obligated to not meet new people, or feel awkward if one of you hooks up. Don't do it, disaster will strike.
2006-08-08 09:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, vacationing with the opposite sex always leads to sex. Seeing that y'all used to be in a relationship together and are really good friends, y'all will probably share a room together. Then you guys may even share the same bed. If you share the same bed, its most likely that y'all will share some other things in that room and I don't mean toothpaste.
2006-08-08 09:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask but it sounds like the answer would be NO. Friendship is hard after a relationship ends, move on and ask a friend, then theres no pressure or stress on you vacation. Good luck!
2006-08-08 09:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys need to talk more than every once in a while before asking her on vacation. If you talk every day or every other day, then maybe. It all depends. Are either one of you seeing someone? If you ask her, it might come across as begging to come back to you. You should be friends again before asking.
2006-08-08 09:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋