If you do, meet at a public place. Do not let him know where you live until you get to know each other. I'm not talking about hours, I am talking about months. There are alot of sicko's out there. Be very careful and carry a pocket knife or mace. Protect yourself and watch this guy's behavior. Don't let him take you off before you get to know him. Let friend's or your parents know. If your parents will freak they have good reason, but if your going to do it anyway, let someone know. Anyone you trust. Tell them you will call them and let them know when you get home so they know your okay and don't get a search party out after you. Just use good common sense. Usually your instincts are pretty good, so follow your feelings.
2006-08-08 09:45:17
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answered by Xena 3
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Internet dating can seem like the easy way to find lasting love, but don't give your hopes up too quickly. There are many dangers that you must consider, not to mention other facts.
You can talk to a person over the internet a million and a half times, however the person you imagine you're talking too often ends up being someone completely different. That person can often turn out to be someone who means to do you more harm than good. Do you really want to take that chance?
While some aspects of internet dating seem positive, I don't believe you can find your true love in this type of environment. However, everyone differs. Everyone is in a different situation. You have to ask yourself, 'why do you have to resort to this type of dating?'. Sure, it's never easy trying to find that great person to share your life with, but why are you single? What's holding you back? Are you a work-aholic? How's your self confidence? Do you have a problem with approaching potential mates? You have to decide if it's truly worth your time. If you really need an internet dating service then I say go for it. But be prepared. All of these dating services make promises of finding true love, however, not all deliver. Personally, I would leave fate to do the work for you. Concentrate on yourself for now. How can you be a better person? Do you need to lose weight? Are there any bad habbits that you have to get rid of? Concentrate on improving your own self confidence by take better care of yourself. I think the reason you may be looking for an internet dating service is because of your lack of self-confidence. Once you up your confidence, you can feel better about entering the dating world- without the need to spend a ton of money for someone else to tell you who you should be with.
Good luck!
2006-08-08 16:50:41
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answered by yayachicky 2
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It seems to work for a lot of people, just be careful
2006-08-08 16:42:21
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answered by densil 2
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