Am i ugly, no, am i hot, wel, i sure as hell think i am. Its almost like i am a ghost to everyone that is around. If i were noticable, i would've gotten a girlfriend by now. Evry other person has a girl, so why cant I. hey, maybe i am cursed or something. Maybe i get to sit around and watch everybody go through relationships over and over again. That sure would suck if that were true. Help me out here people
2006-08-08 09:18:22 · 7 answers · asked by theone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you have to do is have faith in yourself, and start asking as many girls out as you can! Just walk up to them and start chatting. If they seem to chat with you all right, get their phone numbers and call for a date a few days after that. But girls will give you their numbers when they don't like you as well. About 1 in 6 numbers you get will be from girls who like you, and about 1 in 10 will be from girls who you like and who like you back. So be patient and keep working at it! It also pays to be an optimist, because nobody wants to hang with someone who's always complaining or negative. Good luck!
2006-08-08 09:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there! As I am a girl, I gotta say "get yourself out there!" not to be rude, but wishing you have a girlfriend won't help. Maybe try being a friend to a girl first before you ask her out. And there is somebody for everyone and there are people all over so just keep trying. Good luck :)
2006-08-08 16:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by iceisnice610 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u r hot, maybe girls r just finding u inapproachable. sometimes we're intimidated by attractive guys. just smile & make eye contact at the next lady u see. it makes easier 2 approach a guy that way. it also depends where ur putting urself out. ask friends' girlfriends 2 hook u up w/some1 they know. or go to a club or bar & check out the scene.
2006-08-08 16:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by CoolBlue4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you are invinsible.. or just ugly...becuase if you were hot like you say you are.. then chicks are not afraid to ask for your phone number or something... i get asked all the time.. oh yeah and im not conceited either.. just stay cool dude.. dont try to aim so high either.. get a fat chick.. or something.. start small then work your way up.. learn... you just cant be hot.. you got to sale your game... ok..? good. cioa.
2006-08-08 16:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by davilaa123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you talk to girls? Girls like guys with confidence and that can show they can hold their own. If you look like a loser, act shy, and closed minded. Girls will not give u the time of day!
Plus, if its ment to be it will come around.
2006-08-08 16:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you think Negative all time!
honey think Positive all time and build yourself a Self-Confidence and i'm sure you will find a GirlFriends!
Follow my Advice and i'm sure 100% that it will work!
2006-08-08 16:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by ¤Forever¤ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause some people just arent into u... if u want a girl u should just talk to them first and become friends friends and see how it turns out to be
2006-08-08 16:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Alex . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋