Ok, so I think I am gay although I have never dated a guy. How can I tell for sure? Serious answers please.?

Question

Yea, lately for about a month or so all I have been able to think about is guys. Iv'e started commenting on girls wear and I think I actually might like it more than guys stuff

Answer 1

Well ask yourself:
1. do you think girls are attactive or hot?
2. do you think guys are attractive or hot?
3. am I willing to tell other people that I'm gay?
4. if I could go out with anyone in the world who would it be?
5. do you compliment on girl articles of clothing or jewlery?

1. If you said yes than it points to no you're not gay, no then yes you're gay
2. If you said yes, same as the previous question
3. This really depends if you are willing.
4. If it was a guy=gay girl=straight
5. This depends on which level.

If you know someone who is gay then ask them, they will understand.

Answer 2

What is it that makes you think that you are gay?
You might just be confused, if you can think of no really good reasons for being gay and that's not that uncommon.
There are some circumstances that might possibly make you think that you are, like sexual and physical abuse from a woman, no male authority figure, attraction to men vs. women.
The best thing for you is to talk to someone you trust or to get a counsellor to talk to help you sort your feelings/attractions out.

Answer 3

You can tell if you are seriously attracted to a guy, and the idea of being with a girl or kissing a girl is unappealing to you. Otherwise, if you did both ideas, then you're probably bisexual. If you desire a guy, then you're probably gay.

Answer 4

go to a gay club/bar and hang out and see if you are turned on by anybody..if so give it a shot. you will never know or have your peice of mind until you go out there and try it. see if any of the others are attracted you. also find one gay person that you can sit with and talk to and see how they figured out they was gay!?!?! its apart of life that you have to deal with and figure it out. really though go to a gay club/bar and see how it goes from there. Good Luck and Best Wishes

Answer 5

well steve only u know the truth what or who do u fantasise(cant spell) about when your all alone -male or female or both- whom do u find that u get crushes on or feel attraction tward it should be real easyto tell your self maybe not so easy to tell family and friends but time will heal if it hurts anyone be true to you and your wants thats the only way to make you happy good luck and happy hunting. ;)

Answer 6

I would have to say if you visualize yourself with another man in some kind of sexual manner that would be a good indication. If you masturbate because you are thinking of a man, that could be an indication.

Answer 7

Uh, what do you think

Go to a gay bar

Pick up a cute guy (if he'll have you)

Go back to your place and get busy

Then evaluate

Answer 8

There is no way to tell for sure, except for to experience. There is no shame in being gay or bisexual. Don't worry about it, just let time tell.

Answer 9

if you find yourself attractive to men you most likely are, now you can also be bisexual if you find yourself attracted to both, there is not one way of knowing unless you follow your heart..dont be scared of what anyone has to say just be you and let it fall through naturally if you find a guy that attracts you and he's into you then go oon a date and find out .....

Answer 10

ask urself if uve ever been attracted to girls or is there a guy that you are attracted to, like getting that feeling down there attracted. how old are you, if you've ever had a girlfriend, i think you would know by now, maybe you are bi-curious