well im a virgin and i've hear lots of things about ur 1st time...?

Question

DO U BLEED AFTER OR DURING HAVING SEX? AND DOES IT HURT?

Answer 1

Hunny, everybody is different. Some do, some don't. BUT, make sure you are VERY comfortable with your partner and that you are close with that person. You need to feel intimate to the person in order to be intimate with that person. Plus it makes your muscles more relaxed and helps you not to tense up, therefore making it feel alittle better.

Answer 2

Some people are different. For my 1st time, it did hurt a little but I didn't bleed or anything. My boyfriend was so careful and sweet... he didn't take things fast. He took it nice and slow, until I got comfortable with it.

So just make sure you two talk about it first (ex: what to do, how to do it, etc). Communication is very important. If he does it really quick and fast on your 1st try, you may have a chance to bleed.

Answer 3

I didn't bleed, but even if you are 'wet' before it starts, it's going to be hard when it goes in at first, so the first, maybe 15 seconds, hurt. After 20 times now, it still takes me a few seconds to get used to his penis going in for like 3-5 seconds maybe, but nothing major, it doens't hurt, but the first minute or so until you're comfortable should be slow, and if you're worried that you might bleed, put a dark towel under you guys over your sheets, and then just wash it afterwards.

Answer 4

Yeah. Well, if your hymen breaks. Your hymen actually may have already broken from using tampons of masturbating, but usually it's still intact your first time. It's a fleeting pain (it doesn't last long), but you might bleed a little after. Did you know that showing the bloodied sheet the day after the wedding is a ritual in many African tribes? Weird, huh?

Answer 5

It's extremely uncomfortable, but not painful. Make sure you're well lubricated before you start having sex. I didn't bleed, but alot of girls I know did. Also, know that it's not going to feel that great the first few times you do it, especially its the first time for the guy you're with. Really though, it's not that bad, and once it gets good, it's amazing ;-)

Answer 6

I hear varying feedback about bleeding/pain etc but you must be completely honest with your partner/boyfriend and simply tell them your concerns about pain etc and if they love you they will make the lovemaking experiance one of tenderness and caring,any signs that they say you are being silly etc or dont want to talk about it is a good sign to leave the relationship as any caring loving person would be more than happy if not honoured to be the first one you have made love/sex with and would try their best to make it a wonderful experiance for you and themselves. be honest and share your thoughts and all will be well.

Answer 7

I did...like right after he stopped BUT all girls are different, some dont bleed till hours later or even the next day... just make sure your with someone who you know well enough to not really be embarrased about it. and yea, it does kind of hurt (again..it depends on who your with) it just feels like a lot of pressure, but its over pretty fast and then it feels good

Answer 8

Only when you lose your virginity. When you lose your virginity, you tear your hymen. Some people have a fragile hymen and don't bleed, others do bleed. I've heard that it hurts, but I'm a virgin too.

Answer 9

im a virgine to and i think it does hurt and ya you bleed but what do i know

Answer 10

im a virgine too, well i heard the first time u do bleed....... and if u take it easy and do it slowly it wont hurt that much