my boyfriend of 3 years wanted a threesome with his friend, so i did it for him, it was good, but that was months ago, and his friend is calling me, thinking we have a "special relationship" should i tell my b/f, and what would you do if that happened to you
2006-08-08 09:12:58 · 25 answers · asked by SHE HATE ME 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too cool. Got the poor boy sprung like that. I would call the b/f and let him know.
2006-08-08 09:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Hello A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your bf wanted a threesome with his friend, then I don't see how he can be jelous in any way, so you should tell him what's going on... if he gets a little angry at you at first, don't worry, he will eventualy realize that it's his and that you were only telling the truth.
If this would happen to me, I'd tell my gf cause, a relationship is based primarily on trust and if you take that base brick , them all of the building collapses... so you should save the foundation althogh the walls will be scraped a little.
2006-08-08 09:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mosquito molestator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was stupid enough to introduce that element to the relationship, then I suppose I would have to consider that there may be consequences. So, if my friend is now in love with my girl, its totally my fault. So now your b/f should know about his friend, and if you all want to have a "special relationship" with each other again than you can proceed on that, but if you and your b/f don't choose to continue your "special relationship" with the friend, then your b/f should confront him.
2006-08-08 09:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have never even done that and what kind of a boyfriend do you have that would want to share you with another guy?You can tell your boyfriend but I dought if he cares about you if he allowed and wanted something so bad I think you need to ask god to forgive you and leave that guy and try to gain back some self respect.
2006-08-08 09:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, TELL YOUR BF!!!
Don't mean to shout but I'm surpised you guys didn't talk about this first. A threesome can be a relationship killer if it doesn't follow this golden rule: TRUST
1) You trust him
2) He trust's you
3) If the third party tries to intervene, you tell each other and the third person is outta here!
2006-08-08 09:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Pick up heavy stick. Smack 'best friend' firmly with heavy stick till he apologizes
2. Tell boyfriend, hand him heavy stick, direct towards 'best friend'
3. DON"T EVER HAVE 3somes or 4somes with people you are going to see again for exactly this freakin reason. Once or twice maybe but don't start a poly relationship unless you know what you are getting into.
2006-08-08 09:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always best to be honest with your bf. If his friend keeps calling you then you shuld let him know . Just keep in mind his friend may try and make it seem like you wanted him to call. But its always best to be honest specially if you love your bf
2006-08-08 09:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend and want to stay with him, then yes definitely you should tell him, and let him deal with the friend that's calling you. Or, you can tell him yourself.
2006-08-08 09:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by rollarcoaster brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell your b/f. Just because the 3 of you shared an experience doesn't mean he can have you anytime he wants. Bad form, would be my ex-friend if I were your b/f.
2006-08-08 09:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes mos def tell your man cuz that other man aint a friend. and he shouldnt be calling you esp, if your man doesnt know. unless you like his friend or want another threesome. if not tell him now. so he can whoop his ***. one more word of advice dont act like a hoe and you wont be treated like one.
2006-08-08 09:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋