So I'm 23 and I've just started seeing this great guy. We get along really well and we love spending time with eachother, etc. We recently had the "how many people have you been with?" conversation and while his answer was lower than I'd expected (2), my answer that I'm a virgin shocked him. I explained that I've messed around and whatever, it's just that I've never actually gone all the way. I've waited a long time and I'm not necessarily waiting for marriage but simply for the right person. But anyone else I've had this conversation with has gotten all weirded out and then we end up not seeing eachother anymore. Is that a vaild reason, to you guys, not to be with someone you really like?
2006-08-08 08:57:23 · 5 answers · asked by Di 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it doesn't matter to me. I'd rather be with a virgin then a s l u t.
2006-08-08 09:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would date her.
2006-08-08 16:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats odd...i always heard guys like a virgin...maybe at your age for the guy, it means its to serious...like he wants to lightly date, and if he takes your V you'v saved for 23 years, then its like ...not light anymore. But to answer your question, yes i want my wife to be a virgin.
2006-08-08 16:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not matter to me. I think that is fantastic. In todays world it is great to knwo that there ae still womwn like you out there.
You have restored my faith!
Bravo!
2006-08-08 16:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I date any chick, I dont care if shes a virgen or not....they all the same.
Peace
Aldo
2006-08-08 16:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by {~Aldo~} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋