my dad asked him if he liked the food, he answered , yes, but it need more oil . is it right to say that to people u meet them for first time? can we consider it honesty or rude? cause my family took a bad idea about him, and he embarrased me .
2006-08-08 08:49:40 · 8 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
YES, IT MAY BE PERCEIVED AS RUDE.
A "GUEST" SHOULD NOT INSULT THE COOK.
2006-08-08 08:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea at all what you mean by your family took a "bad Idea about him" and he (he who?) "embarassed me".
First of all, you didn't say your age.
Secondly, if it was a serious matter they would not have "taken" him to lunch they would have had lunch at home for the four of you to chat.
Seems like your parents just wanted to take a look at your bf and check out his manners.
2006-08-08 15:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy is honest. What is wrong with that? If everything else about him is OK, what is the big deal? I would rather have a man who is honest about things as basic as FOOD than one who would lie about anything.
2006-08-08 16:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I guess it was embarrasing to say that. Maybe he was too nervous and he made that mistake...you can't judge a person for one thing he did and it was embarrasing. Your parents have to give him another chance.
2006-08-08 15:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by asimenia_psycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's courtesy, not honestly that's important here. If he was courteous he would have said that the food was good and that he liked it, he was invited to the lunch, he should be more appreciative.
2006-08-08 16:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by goldiemcg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was being honest to his taste. But your family shouldn't take it so serious. You have to get to know a person and if they can't tell you the truth, there is know need in talking at all.
2006-08-08 15:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds a bit rude.
2006-08-08 16:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Padme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to hear the answer, don't ask the question.
2006-08-10 03:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Amy F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋