Is it weird that everytime i'm not home my boyfriend is searching for porn on the internet?

Question

It confuses me a bit because i'm highly sexual with him and experimental..... I just find it weird.

It was out of hand in the past and made me feel very uncomfortable because it seemed to be an addiction. I asked him to stop and obviously it has not.... Was it unreasonable for me to ask him to stop?

Answer 1

nope, that's what we do... we need to see naked girls at all times

Answer 2

I think he might be embarassed to look at it while you are home, possibly being afraid that you might flip out. My fiance does it all the time because he knows I freak out due to me not feeling the most wonderful about my body. I used to check the history on the computer constantly, just because I was so obsessed that he might be looking for something else, though that wasn't the case at all. Yes, I believe it can be normal unless he is getting on webcam, oh, that is a no no in my household, I'll tell ya that much. There are men out there that know or believe that it's a sin and still do it. In all actuality though, it's something a guy does, not because he doesn't want you, just because he's curious and at times, it doesn't hurt at all, it can benefit your relationship(they learn new tricks, lol).

Answer 3

Women are designed to carry a child to term and care for it until it reaches adulthood. This means that for women the most important thing in life is a relationship. They have to find a partner that they are willing to raise a child with and that requires a long-term commitment. So a dirty picture isn’t enough to get a woman off. It might please them or be a good start to sex, but by itself it isn’t enough.

The male is geared to reproduce quickly so a picture of a hot woman can be enough to get him aroused, and sexually excited. That’s why all men seem to be dogs, lusting after all the pretty women. It’s in their genes, but if they find the right woman then they can settle down and have a good relationship.

Women love to window shop. They may not buy everything they see, but they like to imagine that they can. It’s all part of the nesting instinct. Men like to window-shop to; only it is looking at pretty girls; as long as it doesn’t compromise the relationship then window-shopping for girls, or viewing porn on-line isn’t that bad. Of course it can get out of hand, and too much of anything is bad. If it concerns you then you should bring it up, but you need to remember that his interest in porn is built into his genes. And, you would rather have him looking at dirty pictures then messing around with other women. It also does not mean that he loves you any less, or that you are not enough of a woman for him. As far as sex is concerned no man can get enough, that’s built into the genes.

Answer 4

No it is not weird.

I am presuming that your boyfriend would be alone when you are not at home. Alone means free time to do what one likes. Bar other chores that need to be done, he probably finds this interesting (as do almost the majority of men).

More amusing, and comes across to me as a bit weird, is how come you know?

Answer 5

There are differences between men and women that we learn during the course of life....

1) women have 1 boyfriend and 84 pairs of shoes before they marry, while men have 84 girlfriends and 1 pair of shoes before they get married, to wear.

2) Women say to men those all important 3 words to them, "I love you".... Men say those all important words to them in return, "Me so Hawney".

I could go on and on. There are many more humorous things that we can comment on too when it comes to the differences between the sexes.

It is only normal that men are much more pre-occupied with sex and since the internet came along, it makes porn that much easier to access and view too. Best way to deal with it is to hide the mouse on him.

Answer 6

I wouldnt say its wierd. I think all men do it and those women who think thier man dosnt just have not caught him yet. The important thing is that he respect you. If it gets to a point where you think he is disrespecting you you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and maybe ask him to give it a rest for a while.

Answer 7

Well, it's wierd, but common for people to do that. It's just porn on the internet, I mean, what's he gonna do, jump through the screen and get him some? Don't take it too seriously, just get a web nanny.

Answer 8

Not all guys do it. It's just so ingrained into our cultral that all guys are sexual addicts that only care about women and beer. Get yourself a good Christian guy, who actually follows his religion if it bothers you that much. Or try to help him stop.

Answer 9

Its not weird, its totally normal especially if he's young. I mean theres alot of porn out there and sometimes you just need to take care of things yourself. At least he's not whining that he doesn't get enough sex.

Answer 10

Hes a prevert...my husband used to do that...disguising....I say it is ok when you are together to watch movies and get off but by yourself...no....and you know there are always others girls willing to have cyber sex with him...that cheating...all this stuff goes hand in hand...Porno, Lieing, cheating stealing....

Answer 11

Not wierd.
You obviously need to be a bit dirtier in the bedroom.