My ex and i broke up almost a yr ago but we became really good friends. We got really close as friends. She went to TN for school and we stayed good friends while im back here in CA. Shes only in TN 3 Months at a time 4 school. I went out the TN to visit her and she picked me up from the airport w/her new b/f. When i was in TN she stared giving me mixed signals. She told me that if i told her to break up w/he b/f she would do it in a heart beat, she said she wished she was single, i told her how i was gonna ask her to marry me b4 she left to TN and was mad and disappointed i didnt ask her, i had a motle room w/2 beds and she jumped in the same bed as me, she kept on trying to get away from her b/f to see me alone, we went dancing and she looked at me like she wantd a kiss then it fell apart when some1 said i was there to steal her back and she got mad at me w/o talking to me like she needed an excuse to be mad at me. Why would she do this? Is she hiding feelings 4 me? what do i do
2006-08-08 08:37:29 · 14 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd say the best thing to do is let her try and figure out what she wants and not contact her for a while..
maybe her new bf isn't what she is looking for...
2006-08-08 08:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If this friendship is as confusing as it sounds you need to at least be pursuing someone who doesn't already have a bf...Its not a wise circumstance that she is with another guy and she would leave him if you gave her an excuse....I am not sure why the two of you broke up in the first place but their needs to be some stability established between the two of you if anything permanent is going to develop....good luck.
2006-08-08 08:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her dumb a$$ alone.
She sounds like a jerk. She's all about yanking you around.
She sounds like she's trying to keep you on the back burner in case her new boyfriend doesn't work out.
She's ticked that you didn't propose before you left? I don't know why you told her that now, but she sounds like she's trying to latch on to the first taker so she can be married and depend on somebody else to take care of her.
Why do you care whether she has feelings for you? She has a boyfriend that she's willing to poop on, why do you think she'd treat you any better?
Tell her you don't have any time in your life for this drama. Find somebody who wants to be with you because they think you're great, not someone who wants you, doesn't want you, wants you, doesn't want you.....infinity.
Good luck
2006-08-08 08:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know what? Thank your lucky stars that you didn't get with this girl. You might love her, and the truth hurts, but my friend, think about how you would feel if you were her boyfriend. She could be trying to get with someone else behind your back. I think you need to stop all contact with her. She is just hurting you. Don't let her do this to you, man. You are way better than that!!!!!!!!
2006-08-08 08:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is totally hiding her feelings and sending mixed messages. I guess still in love with you and guilty about the new guy in front of you.
Wait til she comes back for good and have a honest talk asking her where she see's your realationship going.
If it's meant to be it will be... but she needs to be completely honest with you.
2006-08-08 08:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave her alone. Either she isnt mature enough to make up her mind and quit messing around or she is just trying to mind f*** you and play games to get a reaction out of you. Move on to someone who will be with you and love you and wont treat you like that.
2006-08-08 08:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah! she likes you! but that was a wake up call that you 2 werent doing it the right way, and so she felt guilty. you 2 should try and talk about it and get together, because it's obvious you have something for each other! good luck!!
2006-08-08 08:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by musicislife1233 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Showing up at the airport with her bf would be all the signal I needed
2006-08-08 08:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her to stop playing these games, that you told her that you were going to come to propose to her and she was still with that other guy, that she said she would get rid of, tell her that she imbarrased you by acting like you were doing something wrong when she was the one that did not do what she was saposed to do knowing you were on your way to propose. tell her to tell you why she did it, and does she want to be with you or not. if she wants to be with you she has to get rid of the other man she is dating, that if she ecepts your proposal that she cant ever see another man like that agian that when married it is only you and her, if she cant handle that then you dont need to marry her, that means she would cheat on you and you dont want to be involved with someone like that. good luck
2006-08-08 08:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up! If you can't figure this out, then you need to lose the woman you love to another man. The answer is right in front of you of what you need to do.
2006-08-08 08:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is hiding Nothing. U r astupid let the opprtunity pass. Find her in ur friends arms and repent for life.
2006-08-08 08:42:52 · answer #11 · answered by udayakumar k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋