I don't find girls physically attractive anymore...is this bad?
Girls have pissed me off in the past and have played my emotions, I hate that.
Im sorry to say this but girls have to much drama, and I don't want that.
I never had a gay experience yet, is it worth it to try?
2006-08-08 08:34:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm a little confused by you saying you're not physically attracted to girls and that they've given you too much drama in the past. Not sure what one has to do with the other. I mean, unless you're unusually bitter about things that have happend to you. (Btw, I don't mean that in an insulting way.) It's perfectly normal to 'think' about same sex sex. The question is does it appeal to you? Are you attracted to guys? Are you attracted to guys more than girls? If so, don't get caught up in today's homophobic society and go give it a try. I wouldn't swear off women altogether though as it just sounds like your heart needs some time to mend. Then again, maybe girls weren't right for you from the start.
2006-08-08 08:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're gay then you're gay. You would probably know it. Just because you dream it don't necessarily mean you're gay but if you daydream it then you are for sure. However, Just because girls pissed you off in the pass don't mean try out guys. Haven't you seen Jerry Springer? Gay relationships have just as many problems as straight relationships if not more.... Good luck with your situation
2006-08-08 08:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by sha scrilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are definitely leaning toward the gay side of the fence. Just so you know, gay guys are very feminine in general and will play with your emotions as well as nag and most of them love drama.....I have a few gay friends and they fight more than me and my wife.
I would stay on the straight side fence if I were you, but then I don't like messing with nature.
2006-08-08 08:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with what you are feeling who ever you are is ok. if you are finding men attractive you should explore your feelings. You may decide that you where just confused or you may find that you can be very happy knowing who you are. Don't let your fear get too much in the way. Do what ever you think will make you happy and if what you do doesn't make you happy then you know for the future. good luck.
2006-08-08 08:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by midesweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does not make you gay. We dream about a certain thing when we think about a certain thing a lot. For example, if you think about chicken before you go to sleep, the chances of you draming abuot chicken is very great so, if you just stop thinking about it than you will stop dreaming about it. Just because you are dreamng about it, that does not mke you gay.
2006-08-08 08:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a point in everyone's life when they find themselves questioning their sexuality. I would say try it, and if it doesn't work, fine. If it works, good for you, man! Do remember, however, that not all girls are the same. And no matter which way your saloon door swings, there IS someone out there for you.
2006-08-08 08:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not weird. Don't let people intimidate you. I have a couple gay friends and they are happy the way they are. I would suggest you experiment with it.
2006-08-08 08:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by noemi g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hey go commit a crime get arrest and make nice with the general population. Maybe Jail is for you
2006-08-08 08:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your physically attracted to the same sex then yes your gay, but if youve been attracted to females and you still are then your probably bi-sexual. experiment dont label yourself, your just probably startin a path of self discovery lol
2006-08-08 08:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seems like you don't like girls, you're dreaming of guys. Your turning gay.
2006-08-08 08:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋