Part of me is a little weary because she is insecure and selfish. Part of me still wants her around because she's a good person despite her flaws..
Help!
2006-08-08 08:22:41 · 8 answers · asked by yadedyah_dc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you see her as insecure and selfish, it's very unlikely that you will be able to be friends with her.
It's really best not to be around insecure, selfish people. They may have good points to their personality, but those two flaws trump any positive things about them. Insecure people drain their friends emotionally, and selfish people can not be trusted.
Make other friends. Just let this one go.
2006-08-08 08:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there brother. Short answer is, no you can't be friends. Not at first anyway. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend last Septemberish, and we stayed "friends". In reality we were really dating without the title. If you want to get over this girl, you need to cut off contact for a while. After the feelings have dissipated then give friendship a shot.
2006-08-08 15:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jorge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get over her then you shouldn't be friends. The easiest way to get over someone is not talking to them or seeing them. I personally don't think I can be friends with my bf if we would ever break. Normally when someone breaks up with you or vice a versus they are hurt and don't want to speak to that other person. I've felt like that before. Good luck!!
2006-08-08 15:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had a relationship where you were best of friends more than lovers it is possible to maintain the friendship side of the broken relationship, But you both have to be thinking at a much higher level less the petty fights and squabbles.
2006-08-08 15:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by sexy browning 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's hard to stay friends after breaking up, unless both people are mature enough to realize they aren't right for each other. Then there would be no hard feelings over the breakup, and it would be possible to be 'just friends'.
2006-08-08 15:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by yahooserious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think you'll be friends. Not after one of you is dating someone else seriously. It might be an issue for the other 'half'.
2006-08-08 15:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by Avanti.Q 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that u dont want to bf wit her and jus friend if she dosnt then she dont want to be ur frien then u dont need her good luck ;)
2006-08-08 15:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by joonece r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, just tell her that you think your relationship is better off being a friendship realtionship rather than a love interest..............she'll be understanding if you say it the right way.............
2006-08-08 15:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋