Well, I would say that you should talk to him, and then bring out the subject of those 4 other girls. Ask him about them, who are they to him and all that stuff... ask him about you and him, what does he see you as; his friend or his girlfriend maybe. And after you resolve all the issues, then you have to start thinking about what to really do.
Coz if he sees you only as his friend, then you will have to forget about him as a possible boyfriend, and be just his friend.
If he sees you as his possible girlfriend, then he'll just have to stop saying "I love you" to those girls, and treat you the way you deserve.
Good luck!
2006-08-08 08:27:15
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answered by miraob86 4
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Some people use the word "love" very casually, like you would use a tissue. It really means nothing to them. Maybe, though, he loves you all as "friends". Your friendship should be just as precious as any relationship. If you are young, don't rush in to anything. Enjoy being friends. Get to know people before you fall in "love" and before you give your heart away. I know it's easier said than done, but you will have plenty of time for heartaches later in life. Don't start them now.
2006-08-08 15:25:46
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answered by Michael 3
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First realize he doesn't really love you. He uses the word way too freely.
Don't hold up hope and wishful thinking. Talk to other guys and go out with your friends. Do not let him consume your mind and your life. He's not worth it and you will realize this in time.
2006-08-08 15:25:38
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answered by Jessica 4
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well i wouldnt just like blow him off but tell him wat u just said here. u need to tell him that if he realy does love u then he will stop telling thoes other girls the same thing.and if u realy do like or love him tell him that and if u do then u should go out with him as bf/gf. but if u find out that he keeps saying "i love u" to other girls after u talk to him about it then that is the time u should just leave him alone.(in that kind of love way)
2006-08-08 15:29:10
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answered by my horse is a helmet breaker 2
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Seriously think about it , the same way he lying to those OTher girls , the same thing he is doing ot do . just forget about him , put him behind obviously he doesn't love you enough . you don't need some one like that.You need someone who is going to respect you.
2006-08-08 15:30:36
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answered by princess11 2
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Let him go .Even if by some chance you two ttook it to another level,it wont work,because you already know in your heart he is just a player. You deserve better.
2006-08-08 15:26:13
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answered by ? 3
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i dont think hes worth it. he lies and youll be just one more notch on his belt wont you. do you really want to share. better that you find someone that is nice and honest. more on dating and love on this site that will help you
2006-08-08 15:23:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell him bye bye, he is a player, and doesnt love any of you, he just uses all of you for sex!
2006-08-08 15:23:46
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answered by Anonymous
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u just need to cut him off!
2006-08-08 15:25:33
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answered by pussykat.1983 2
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You don't have to take that bullshit! Forget about it.
2006-08-08 15:24:14
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answered by will 4
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