I'm pretty much in love with him, but i think he likes my little sister... what do i do?????? help!!!!????
2006-08-08 08:15:26 · 30 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him go, find a new guy...he never really liked you, he got "close to you" now he wants with your sister..??WTF??...anyways, you shouldn't take it personal, I'm pretty sure you are absolutely fine and a very wholesome girl overall...you don't need a guy to value you....simply value yourself and meet new wonderful people, there are about a 1,000,000,000 guys out there who'd want to meet a girl like you.
Good luck!
2006-08-08 09:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jr Thompson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would discuss this with her. Tell her how you feel. However, remember, that it has nothing to do with her, it is him. His feelings are changing, so don't take it out on her. She may not even be totally aware of what is going on. If he loses interest that easily, would you really want a future with him? No, I would not think so. He's just not that in to you. Thank him for the times you've had, and let him go. I'm sorry if your heart is way too in this, but you cannot force someone to love you. Love is a gift, and sometimes people mistakenly give it to the wrong person at the most inappropriate time. Grieve a little, and then move on. Be glad you found out now, and not in 5 years, after you were married, and found out that they were having an affair all these years! Best of luck.
2006-08-08 15:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant actually change a persons likes and dislikes. Put this in mind first.
Try to ask him out and get a 1 on 1 time with him. Chat and get to know him better and give him a chance to get to know you better. Build a relationship out of this and gradually open up your feelings to him. If he feels the same thing towards you then you'll have something going. If he really likes your sister then be strong and accept it. Who is to say that your sis would like him back right? So go with the flow and dont restrict yourself to one particular man. If it doesnt turn out the way you want then im sure one day you'll find that special someone that you can call your own.
Hope this helps, but if it doesnt im sorry. Good luck and take care now, i wish you all the best.
2006-08-08 15:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Putet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you might try talking to your sister about it. She can't do anything about his feelings, but if she's (well, what I would define as) a good sister, she'd let you have him and if he ever made any advances, she'd refuse them. However, don't confront him about it- that would just be weird, especially if you were wrong. Don't put anyone on the defensive, because that leads to bad relationships. Does he know you love him/are you going out? Because that would change things a little- like, if you were dating, you could ask him (with respect) how he feels about your little sis. However, he probably wouldn't admit anything to your face. Anyhow, Good luck!
2006-08-08 15:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a 3 some, or leave the guy cold turkey, your character is going to decide what option: if you are confident and have high self esteem, you will leave this guy immediately, if you are a dependent, insecure and low esteem, then you will "forgive" your bf until death do you part, because you "love" him.
2006-08-08 15:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't mean a thing in this situation Girlfriend. Let him go before you end up more hurt than you already seem to be and if he is trying to get with your little sis(how old is she?) you definitely need to leave him alone.
2006-08-08 15:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First sit down and talk to him. And if you feel like he isn't telling you the truth then you need to leave him. Because sooner or later he will cheat with your sister if she is that type of person.
2006-08-08 15:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u involved with him? if so then leave his *** alone hes not worth ur time im sorry but why be with someone u know ur not going to trust in the next room with a family member. ur sister isn't going anywhere she's fam. remember that
2006-08-08 15:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how 'little' is ur little sister? doesnt really matter, dump him like a hot potato, girl. and tell sis 2 keep away from him 2.
2006-08-08 15:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by big foot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shud ask him about his feelings n if he admits 2 it u shud ditch him rite away n tell ur lil sis 2 steer clear of him!
2006-08-08 15:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by xxx_beckie_bbe_xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋