how to kiss?

Question

my girlfriend says im a bad kisser when i know im really **** and i know i am. so i would like to improve that for her.

Answer 1

see honey, you need to go to VirtualKiss.com.... they are some stories and games... everything that need to know is here...

bad kisser probaly comes from thew Saliva Control, and i know how to control it:-

Saliva Control 101:
Controlling your waterworks

The number one complaint about kissing these days, from both girls and boys, seems to be... you guessed it: SLOPPINESS! I've heard countless stories of wayward tongues, overly abundant saliva, and kisses that leave you feeling more like you got slapped in the face with a giant slug than giddy and breathless (as a good kiss should leave you.)

So what's a kisser to do? There are so many things to worry about when kissing... hands, lips, tongue, hair, body odor... not to mention environmental factors like your surroundings, traffic, parents, siblings, earthquakes... you get the idea. How do you manage to keep up with controlling spit... both yours and theirs, short of pausing every couple of minutes to spit, rinse, and repeat?

Never fear, faithful kissers... here I attempt to suggest a few strategies for dealing with saliva and it's love/hate relationship with kissing. These are not intended as a step-by-step manual for drier kissing. In fact, overly dry kissing causes it's own set of problems. Rather, these suggestions will hopefully give you the basic principles of saliva control... principles which it is up to you to expand, perfect, and adjust to fit your particular kissing style.

1) Of course this may seem obvious, but SWALLOW! In the rush of the moment, this simple solution is often overlooked, but it is important to swallow both before and during the kissing session. Swallowing before the kiss helps prevent a sudden drool-fest once you decide to open your mouth... and a good start is VITAL to good kissing. We know that you're nervous, excited, or whatever... but if you've made it this far, you might as well take that extra step of preparation.

During the kiss itself, ridding yourselves of that extraneous liquid buildup is essential to keeping the kiss somewhat under control. Of course, often this means swallowing a mouthful of their spit as well as yours... which may sound a little unappetizing, especially in this day and age. But if you've been slapping tongues for any length of time, you can pretty much guarantee that your mouths have reached an equilibrium that a little more saliva will certainly not upset. Besides, you've come this far... why be squeamish now?

2) So swallow that excess spit, eh? Well that just leads us to an entirely new set of problems... as in, how exactly does one pull off this maneuver without breaking the flow of the kiss or looking like a complete idiot? Here is where your own particular style must develop... try different strategies and see what works best for you.

One way is use the swallowing process to your advantage. Simply work an opportunity into the kiss, while making the kiss itself better. For example, a quick break to kiss a neck, chin, or ear is an excellent chance to do a little oral housekeeping. Likewise, a small break to take a breath (or 'pant' if you're doing it right) can serve to indicate your excitement and heighten their pleasure, all while giving you a chance to adjust your water level.

The most important thing is to be creative and natural. Breaking away to gulp feverishly is not an especially attractive technique, and may severely shorten the kissing session itself. Just try to relax, be aware of what's going on in your mouth and theirs, and do what you can to keep the situation under control.

Of course, sometimes a nice, wet, sloppy kiss is just what the doctor ordered. But that's another topic, for another day.

So get out there and practice kissing... and try some of the techniques suggested here. You'll generally find that people really appreciate a kisser with the refinement to control the overall moisture content of any kiss. Remember, don't kiss like an amateur... kiss like a pro!

Kissing School!
http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/

hope this helps!!!

Answer 2

Ask her to be more specific. You need to know what exactly the problem is so that you can fix it together.

First of all, brush your teeth regularly and floss, also use your toothbrush gently on your tongue every day and rinse your mouth out. Drink plenty of water. These measures will help to prevent bad breath which is a number one passion killer. Shave regularly so you don't give her stubble rash. Use lip balm occassionaly so that you don't have dry cracked lips.

Now you are prepared.

Remember, you don't always have to kiss her on the mouth. Kiss her forehead, ears, cheeks, nose and eyebrows as well.

When you kiss her on the mouth, think gentle and romantic. Don't be too aggressive. If in doubt, don't use your tongue. If you feel a little more confident gently put your tongue a little way into her mouth but never thrust it hard, it feels like you're being eaten by a large parasitic worm. Move your mouths together slowly, close your eyes, relax and enjoy the feeling of holding each other close.

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

Forehead

Answer 4

Practice on your hand, using your index and thumb as practice "lips". Don't dribble or shove your tongue down people's throats. And lose the facial hair or else it's painful for the ladies.

Answer 5

Why don't you ask her what she doesn't like about it? Us ladies are all different.... for me... to much spit is a definate gagger... or too much tongue..... a little is fine... the whole thing in your mouth is not.... !

Talk to your woman... and ask her to kiss you how she would like to be kissed...

Answer 6

stop thinking about what your doing,relax, enjoy yourself.if your relaxed your facial muscles move better,leading to great snog.
p.s practice makes perfect

Answer 7

tell her the truth and ask her to teach you how to kiss

Answer 8

practice on an orange.

Answer 9

kiss her slowly caress her tongue with yours....slooooowly...she will melt like butta

Answer 10

best thing to do is keep practising n practising,,