Why are there so many judgmental biatches on the parent/pregnancy forums?

Question

All I see are comments from a lot of angry mothers and bitter hags who can’t have children.

They like to boss people around and tell them what to do, but then you read their questions and it’s a whole new story!

These women have kids with fathers not around or drug addict loser boyfriends.

I think they are just so hateful that they need to go on the internet and make other people feel like crap too.

If you have nothing productive to say then you should just go back to your crappy job with your welfare children and drink.

Oh, I AM judgmental! At least I can admit it!

Answer 1

hahahahah...

Maybe you are right.

Answer 2

I would like to respond to your comment "if you have nothing productive to say then you should just go back to your crappy job with your welfare children and drink". For your information I happen to be on welfare for the simple fact that my house burned down and i lost everything. My job was in my home. I dont drink, and i dont ***** about my kids' father not being around. you need to check into more before you start spouting off. not everyone on here is a "bitter hag" or an "angry mother". Some of us are here to help people with real questions and then someone like you comes in and accuses us of being angry. Quite stereo-typing all of us.

Answer 3

You are right though. There's one user on here, I think it's "MilWife" or something, that's a stay at home mom of three kids while her husbands away in the military. From what I've seen this lady is ultra conservative, and gives the same stock "see a doctor" response to EVERYTHING.

The Internet makes things alot easier for someone who is pregnant to receive information rather than calling the doctor every 20 minutes. Gathering information based off of other women's experiences can be more comforting than hearing a male doctor say this or that. There are times when seeing a doctor is warrented, but there are times when a simple question about kicking or something is being asked.

So basically, I don't know this woman at all but I kind of hope that a few of her children have pregnancy scares.

Answer 4

I'm not sure this is a question, but...

I don't think that someone who can't have a child should be called a bitter hag. Some of us have fertility problems. I was able to overcome mine, but it's pretty painful not to be able to have your own child when there are people out there that have lots of kids and some even have abortions.

Also, sometimes the questions that are asked are so ridiculous that people just don't know how to answer them. So what you're thinking is "bitchy and judgmental" is just aggravated.

Also, you're accusing other people of being judgmental when you're on here generalizing that all the people that comment are "angry mothers and bitter hags".

Don't you think that's just a teensy bit judgmental?

Personally, I've never made a comment on here that I wasn't totally serious about. I'm trying to help people. Other people don't take it as seriously, but if you ask a serious question, I'll give you a serious answer.

Answer 5

Honestly, people get tired of seeing "could I be pregnant" or "Im 13 and pregnant" or "should I get an abortion" . The majority of people on here are not doctors. And sheesh, half of the people on here cant spell, use a freaking spell checker. As far as being judgemental, you ask a question you will get every kind of response out there. Dont ask if you dont want to hear peoples honest opinions. And um as to the welfare and drugs and all of that crap, grow up, not everyone has the same problems you do.

Answer 6

Such women are often judgmental about situations that they know nothing about. All they have to see is "I'm 15 and pregnant" and they launch a tirade about the person being too young etc. People ask questions because they are looking for help not a lecture.

Answer 7

OKAY!! How about you just don't read thier comments!! Problem solved!! Ever think some people just don't have anyone to turn to and need to talk, and this may be the only way for them to? KARMA baby! Don't judge people your life is not over. You dont know where they have been and where they are going, and you sure don't know where you are going, but talking like that it's not good!

Answer 8

First of all do you have a real question? Second of all I checked out the other questions you've posted and they all start with "what's up with the ******* on the marriage..." , or "What's up with the religous ****** " , Do you yourself have anything productive to ask or add OR is your sole purpose to critique the answers of others? Before you add me to the women this question referred to .... I have been happily married for 11 years to the father of my 3 children ...we were married 3 years before having children , I am a teacher and love my job , and my children are not welfare children. So I guess since I do not meet those criteria it is okay with you if I continue to answer questions ?

Answer 9

Look whose being judgemental and all.
I answer truthfully. My kids father is around and he is not a drug addict or loser boyfriend.
You have judge me being one of those on the parent and pregnancy form before you even knew who I was.
Now that is judgemental and hateful. We tend to point fingers at those who display the same characteristics that we don't like in ourselves. One finger forward three pointing back at us.

Answer 10

They seem to be everywhere on this entire site. Your lucky if you get one shred of useful advice here, it's mostly angry bitter people looking to put others down in an annonymous fashion to give them a momentary ego boost.

Answer 11

There are judgemental people in every category of this site. I just try to pass over the ignorant and snide remarks. Some people think it is cute or entertaining to answer questions in that manner, but it is annoying and a poor reflection of their character. Just remember, misery loves company so if you entertain them and their snide remarks, they will never go away.