ok well my b/f Matthew told me that him and one of his ex girlfriends(brooke) were going to go out at the beging of the year
and i said ooo really
and he said yep but we aren't any more b/c now i have you
and i said ooo ok well thats good
then I heard that Matthew told his ex(brooke) that he loved her and i called him to ask him what it was about and he said that he meant it just as friends
so I told her that i would like if they didn't talk anymore and she said ok at first and now she is all mad at me But matthew really didn't want to talk to her anymore so thats why i did it.
should i feel bad? or should i be worried
2006-08-08 07:43:08 · 33 answers · asked by gingerg50 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess its normal for you to feel worried about your bf still being friends with his ex that recently you heard that he said he loved her. But if your bf really doesnt want to speak to his ex anymore then you should be ok and just concentrate on building a strong relationship with your boyfriend now. No need to feel bad nor that you need to worry. If the trust is there then its all good. Once broken then either work it out or go on your seperate path. just my 2 cents. take care
2006-08-08 07:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Putet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't feel bad cause 1st of all he is your man now and your man needs to get in check. he was wrong for telling brooke that he loved her to begin with knowing that he is with you and secondly, don't feel bad about saying anything to the ex for the simply fact that she is the ex and you are the now. and if matthew doesn't want to talk to this chick then he should tell her with you present so that she gets the picture.
2006-08-08 07:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it was sketchy for him to tell her that he loved her, especially in a "friendly way".... you dont say that to your guy friends who you dont care about like in a bf kind of way!!! right?? so there it was ok to be worried. but if matt + brooke are still good friends, you shouldnt tell them to stop talking 2 each other. thats not really your business, even if he did screw up when he said he loved her. do you trust this guy at all?? trust is a big issue in relationships and if you dont have any, it might not work out.
2006-08-08 07:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither but keep an eye on both. Many situations that I know started off like that and the boy/girl friend end up back with their ex.
2006-08-08 07:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_lil_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You 1stly shouldn't have said not to talk to him. Just discuss it with Brooke. Tell her how you feel. All your concerns and apoligize. Do the same with him. If he knows your concerns he will be more considerate. Good Luck!
2006-08-08 07:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by archonette08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like matthew is trying to play you for a fool. he needs to be honest with you. i think he wants you and brooke at the same time. dump him.
2006-08-08 07:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a few more years and mature a whole lot more before you get any further into this "dating" stuff.
2006-08-08 07:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be perfectly honest she is not the one you should be worried about. if the guy told her that he said it for one reason only trust me and it s not becuase he thinks of her as friends. She might be quilty but i personally beleive that you should be more worried about what your BF might do.
2006-08-08 07:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
high school couples last an average 3 weeks
2006-08-08 07:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by carol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him what the deal is that u aint playin these high school games n if u like her still then hit the road
2006-08-08 07:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋