I'd be nervous about jumping into bed with just anyone, but I do want to try having sex with a man. Any advice?
2006-08-08 07:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by suede1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd advise thinking about it a bit longer before taking that next step. I'd recommend doing a search for gay switchboard on google, and maybe chat online, or find a group in your area, to talk to people going through the same thing. Alot of people are curious, just becuase you think about it doesn't mean you should act on it. If you think about it, and think it is something you want to do, then make sure you take all precautions. Again, meeting people online is a good thing to do (as long as you get to know people and meet in a safe place etc). At any age, it is quite hard to meet gay people, as so many aren't open about thier sexuality. If you live in a city, you could also go to a gay nightclub.
Good luck with whatever you decide. I'm a bi female, If you want any more advice, feel free to email me,
2006-08-08 08:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Try watching some gay porn first. If it makes you go 'yuk!', you're probably not gay or bi.
If you find it a turn on you might want to try a website like Gaydar to look for someone to meet up with as a next step.
2006-08-08 07:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Huh? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it!! Its just a stage ur going thro,dont listen 2 the chocolate starfish gal,lol
2006-08-08 07:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a NON-judgemantal bi-friend, or visit a local hip bar in manchester and chat mith the bartender who might know someone in your shoes...good luck and be safe
2006-08-08 08:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by Enigma A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU KNOW ANYBODY WHO YOU COULD DO THIS WITH??DONT GO CRUISING BECAUSE IT WILL PROBABLY LEAVE YOU WITH A BAD EXPERIENCE OF WHAT ITS LIKE TO DO IT THAT WAY-MY ADVICE WOULD BE TO TAKE IT REAL EASY AND FIND YOURSELF A "F**K BUDDY"WHO YOU TRUST AND KNOW WILL RESPECT YOUR RIGHT TO BACK OUT/TAKE THINGS FURTHER AT YOUR CHOOSING-IN THESE DANGEROUS TIMES I WOULDNT RECOMMEND GOING FOR A STRANGER FOR HEALTH AND PERSONAL SAFETY REASONS-BUT GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE YOU FIND WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR
2006-08-08 07:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use lubricant and put your winkie up his chocolate starfish....easy.
2006-08-08 07:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋