2006-08-08 07:41:03 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely not .Give it some time,grow up some more.You only live once, so enjoy your youth while you can,once its gone you can never get it back.
2006-08-16 07:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not alright! 12-14 is too young.
Sex isn't just body parts slapping together. There is more to it.
Read more, develop your mind, study, exercise and get a hobby,and you will have more to offer AS A PERSON to another person.
Pregnant at 12? Remember, every time-every time-until YOU over 50, you can get pregant. Even one second is long enough. No birth control is 100%- and they ALL fail.
Think about having to tell your grandmother, or daddy that you are pregnant, or that some little girl you know is going to have their grandchild. That should be a happy day for all, not painful, embarrassing, or illegal.
Enjoy growing up, get educated, meet lots of people, pick one, get married, live as a couple a while, then have a baby you have dreamed of together. It is possible. Just remember what is important to you.
Sex is too easy. You might think someone cares about you or is interested in you, and as soon as you have sex, you find out he/she is just using your body,and doesn't care about your life, your future, your interests, your family.
It is humiliating to be a THING or to be TREATED like a THING.
Sex is wonderful when people really care about each other, and want sex to be a PART of their friendship and futures.
You need a LOT of experience in the world to be able to tell the difference between sex and love. I know plenty of adults who can't tell.
It is instant connection. Only connect with people worthy of your time--when you are standing up.
2006-08-08 07:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is alright to have a sexual experience at a young age!!! I was 12 years old when I first had sex and it was with a 14 yearold !! but if that is what are you thinking about just do it the save way if you do have sex at a young age just so you don't get yelled at by there mom for getting them preanded!
2006-08-16 07:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have spoken to a few men and women who experienced sex at a very young age (12-15) and all have said that it robbed them of the beauty of sex. most said if they could go back and change it,they would. With sex there is intimacy and responsibility that a child cannot comprehend. The memory of the first sexual intercourse experience stays with people all their lives. Be thoughtful and respectful to yourself and others.
2006-08-16 07:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. it is too young. Girls and guys at this age usually dont know what love is and most importantly the comsequence of having sex. It is will be extremely undesired to have sex at such a young age especially this is golden hours for the teenages to enjoy dating and loving more than taking the responsibility to having to breed the next generations. I hope you are not talking about yourself, but if you happened to see any of your kids or friends around have the tendency in doing that, please get them to think again.
2006-08-09 03:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by engineerpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The problem with having sex at an early as is the emotional stuff that goes along with sex. At 12-14 99.9% of teen have not fully developed a sense of self. How can you share something so intimate with someone when you don't know who you are?
African Proverb: Never buy a shirt from a naked man.
2006-08-08 07:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not provided the required tools you own are adequate. But to have an experience there are lots of constraints to look after and secure a correct non problematic sexual exp.
Try it but be realistic first, all kids are in a hurry why not you, and also most of them fail so will you.
I am definitely 15 years older than your father, so my advice is well founded and useful.
2006-08-16 04:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 young
2006-08-16 00:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer b/c you used "very young" in the question. No, you or they should wait about another 4-6 yrs, or until marriage. Whatever you/they decide, be safe, use protection b/c that's definitely too young and inexperienced to become a parent...
2006-08-08 07:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its young..but its your life....people are going to give you a lot of crap about the age thing..but its nothing but a number..you just have to understand what your getting into....and protect yourself...i was 13 and my gf at the time (wife now) was 12 when we had sexually experiences and well yeah we had to grow up early we had a kid after that...but we knew what we were getting into..that fact of the matter is kids are going to do what they want..they just better know what they are getting into....a baby doesn't asked to be brought into this world it just happens....weather you are old enough or not.....sorry if this is too religious but GOD doesn't give you what you can't handle it may be hard but you'll get through it whats hard makes you stronger....
2006-08-08 07:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by sgtrlopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll answer your question with a question. Since no birth control method is 100%, are you able to provide emotionally, physically, and financially, for a child that is created? Until you are old enough to handle the ramifications that go along with sex, you are in no position to jump on that band wagon. Wait until you are not only aware of the consequences (pregnancy, stds, aids) but are prepared to deal with them in a mature fashion.
2006-08-08 07:47:41 · answer #11 · answered by Lissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋