My boyfriend (Walter) and I dated for a year and a half before he broke it off. His reasoning was that he was holding me back and I was better off without him. I was deeply in love with Walter and thought we would be together forever. I had given him everything my heart, my virginity. I was so hurt and I cried for days. After four weeks I thought I had moved on he had come over to see me after surgery and I had felt nothing. Then JD came along I had, had a crush on him for awhile and we started talking he was really sweet and asked me out and I agreed. After our first date I came home and bawled thinking of Walter. Everything JD did I compared it to Walter. JD didnt try and hold my hand or kiss me and Walter and I's first date, we made out the entire time. I miss Walter alot and I still talk to him on the phone everyday. Have I moved on or made a mistake dating so soon?
2006-08-08 07:37:57 · 9 answers · asked by ginny M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No my dear you haven't made a mistake. We've all loved. The best part of it is, is knowing that you treated that person with respect. Hopefully to get the same in return if it should surface again. So waht, you went on a date. Are you married to either one? No, you are only obligated to stay true to yourself. Who knows, there maybe someone else for you. JD & Walter may be on the outside looking in. Think about your happiness and your good reputation as a lady. I guarantee you if you keep your virtue in tact, these guys will love & respect you no matter who you're with..... Good Luck
2006-08-08 07:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by mjmojaz 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
That is terrible. Did you ever stop and thing about JD's feelings. Why would you compare JD to Walter. I think you were moving a little to fast, but if you and JD were dating then why were you still talking to walter EVERYDAY. No, I don't think you have moved on but you should have before you started leading JD on, it sounds like he really likes you. Is he good to you? Does he treat you right?
2006-08-08 11:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by jtdm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never a set time to start dating again. You evidently are still not over Walter. You want him to miss and want you and this is what hurts you. Please try not to compare a new date with the Walter date. The new guy probably wanted to make out with you to, but gave you the respect of holding back and not pushing things to fast. Just get out and have some fun, the rest will follow natuarlly..Good luck!!!
2006-08-08 07:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u havent moved on. see if u still talk to this guy everyday u guys are still connected. u need to push this walter away. i am not saying cut him off but dont talk to him so much. go and find a guy that makes u forget about him. u never find another if u keep on holding on to him. that is ur true promblem let him go!
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2016-09-29 01:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were used by walter. He really didn't want to committ to you unless he got what he wanted, sex.
Best to move on. It isn't easy to trust again and that will take time. ONce you do learn how to trust yourself again, then you should give everyone new a fair and equal chance again at getting to know you and your heart., first.
2006-08-08 07:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your stupid sorry but i can;t believe your walker just use you and that excuse was stupid he just said that you make you feel better stop talk to him and move on i think JD really love you and respect you alot that why he don;t do any thing
2006-08-08 07:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are moving fast.
2006-08-08 07:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have become what they call...a shrew.
2006-08-08 07:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋