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I like this guy, and i want to be his girlfriend we talk and all and ive told him that i like him but he hasnt really brought the subject back up. i really like him. i think im in love with him.

2006-08-08 07:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

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Don't be so quick to assume that its love, or else you'll hurt yourself a great deal when it doesn't work out. There really is no way to MAKE someone like you. People choose their partners on the character traits that they admire in that person. Guys will always have their own "dreamgirl" that is the embodiment of every standard that they want to see in a woman, and you should never try to reach those standards because they are not attainable, for you, or for anyone else, and the guys all figure that out in due time.

Just act naturally. Don't try to act cattier or talk in a different way just for him. Guys can tell when a girl is being totally plastic and it turns them off. If it really is meant to be, he will fall in love with you (for the true you) in the right time. If you don't think he is ever going to make a move, then its time for you to move on to another guy. I'm sure you deserve more in your life than waiting for something that's not coming. You might not meet anyone like him, but you might meet someone better.

2006-08-08 07:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 5 0

Six billion people on the planet, six billion different approaches to the timeless question.
The Hard-to-get: stop trying to get his attention. Let him approach you. Maybe he won't. Be prepared.
The Stick-to-it: keep doing what you've been doing and maybe he will start to understand.
The Is-he-a-player: maybe he already has a girlfriend or two. Do you know?
The Honest: tell him how you really feel and if he doesn't feel the same, walk away.
Offer hugs and kisses, give him food if the opportunity arises, invite him to be with you for any of your special occasions, see shows together, talk a lot, listen even more than you talk, ask him if he likes the way you dress and the way you do your hair, etc.
Whatever you do, you will take the risk of having him reject you. Prepare yourself for that, then take the risk you are willing to take. There is one thing you should not do (and I don't know whether it is appropriate for you or not, but I have to say it) don't let desperation trick you into doing something stupid like having unsafe sex.
And always remember that love comes from inside of you. If you have love in your heart, don't let disappointment take it away from you. Live to love another day!

2006-08-08 14:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by anyone 5 · 0 0

u cant make or do anything to make some like like u be ur self and dont try too hard being in love and being inlust feel alot alike.
if he hasnt brought the subject up chances are hes not interested in that way right now.

2006-08-08 14:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by ashley 3 · 0 0

To be totally honest and yourself is the best way and this is what anyone usually looks for in a person (unless of course person only looking for sex,then stay well clear).
Honesty and confidence works wonders and if this does not work then he simply is not interested and you should move on,if he is interested then be yourself and he will open up to you.

2006-08-08 14:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by soothsayer 1 · 0 0

You don't MAKE anyone become interested in you.

If anything, my years of being a teenage girl taught me that people who are not interested in you are a waste of your time... you deserve to be with someone who is genuinely interested in you and who likes you, not someone you have to fool or trick or MAKE like you. If you are meant to be with this person, it will happen.

2006-08-08 14:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by BringBackTheBeats 2 · 0 0

Show some real interest in him and what he does. Most people (guys and dolls) find that irresistible.
Especially in his interests, but make sure you know at least something about that, or he'll figure out real quickly that your interest is phony... ;-)

2006-08-08 14:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Unfortunately you can't make someone love, or, even like you.

2006-08-08 14:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by kittiekasopolous 1 · 0 0

be yourself

2006-08-08 14:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sarija 2 · 0 0

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