Hey guys, what the best way to really catch a guys attention. I mean, a girl you dont know. Whats the best thing she can do to get you to notice her? And, do you guys think about a girl you like as much as a girl thinks about a guy she likes?
2006-08-08 06:56:50 · 24 answers · asked by eranjc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah just walk up and start a conversation. Traditionally it's the guys that have to initiate everything, so i love it when girls come up to me. And yes it is true what you've heard, guys think about girls all the time lol
2006-08-08 07:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dan Theman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume getting his attention would require doing something interesting that he might like. Example: Guy likes writing songs, maybe you should try singing, or ask if you could read one of his songs. Getting a guy's attention all depends on what type of guy he is. As far as if a guy thinks about the girl he likes as much as the girl think about a guy she likes. That's undecidable, like I said there are some guys who might love a girl and won't say a word to her, then there are some girls who only have a lil crush, and wont stop talking 2 the boy the have a crush on. Be more specific and maybe I can help more though. Good Luck
2006-08-08 14:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by ~luminary legacy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like baseball. It will all start with an eye-to-eye contact. If you notice him staring at your eyes or at any beautiful body parts, you have hit the ball and now in the first base. The next base would depend on someone else who would introduce you to each other. If the "someone else" is non-existing, then the only way for you to meet and talk is when anyone of you has the nerve to "initiate" the APPROACH. Most men are shy because most women are rejectionists. And most aggressive men who are not shy are either drunk or "seasoned playboys". So you make the initial approach by asking him, your options are:
1. In the street - "I am not from here and I am lost, I would like to go to X address, if you are from here, would you mind if you accompany me, I'll buy you iced tea on the way". Most men want to be heroes and helpful and gentlemen.
2. Anywhere else - "Can you help me with the vending machine?". Then buy two iced tea, one for you and one for him. Then go to number one above, ask him if he could walk with you because you want to find something that may be in 7-Eleven.
When he agrees to help you, introduce yourself and start the "know more about each other" stuff. If he is not interested on you, he would find excuses to avoid moving an inch with you.
Although intelligent and handsome, I am a shy type of a dog. I have never initiated an approach to a beautifyl lady even if they stare at me.
2006-08-08 14:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by Petals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think if she uses a chessy pick up line It would be straight to the point.
And I think about the girl I like 24/7 but I dont think im the average guy
2006-08-08 14:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by greener 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys love women way more then women like guys but tell you the truth shouldnt be a surprise but looking cute hot or whatever is going to get the attention and dyig hair blonde gets you attention atleast from me i mean blondes can be ugly but when i see i blonde i always check them out....unless i can see there over 200lbs but cloths can also make a difference i know its expensive but AE Hollister look great on girls i dont think anything they sell is ugly all good
2006-08-08 14:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by lztexan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.....well the best way for me is the eyes,u cant go wrong....and i mean u look right in to the eyes..i need to feel ur undressing me and want me....don't show off breast wrong move, guys dont really like that or want that, and the ones who do just want fun.."The eyes "u dont need to touch or dress up."that will get his attention" ...if that dose not work..."he loves himself."....The other question .....yeah we do think about girls ,we man do think like women,its just u women r more up front with ya feelings......than us.....hope this helps u
2006-08-08 14:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by akadelroy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get a guys attention is to demand it from him and then glide away.
I would go up to him and ask a random question, "What time is it?" or something simular, then glide away.
If he is into you he will start pursueing you.
And no, men in my experience only think about women they can't have verses women they love.
2006-08-08 14:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by magerious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girls never ask us if we're tried from running around there mind all the time so i guess guys think of guys they like more
Its easy every man is blessed w/ a certain degree of ADD u just have to keep him to pay attention to u
2006-08-08 14:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by QUESTION 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best way to get a girls attention is to impress her or to talk to her.The best thing she can do to get me to notice her is she can call me over and we can talk or she can fake a fall so I can go over to help her.
2006-08-08 14:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by maddogcuadra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like it when girls seem interested in what we like. Let's say, I always talk about football, you need to get interested in that subject, and talk to him about it. And yea, we always think of girls. I think of girls and sex every 15 seconds
2006-08-08 14:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋