I am 13 and I never had a boyfriend!!! I am just to shy. What should I do?
2006-08-08 06:47:55 · 33 answers · asked by oppa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's okay to not have had a boyfriend at 13...
Be yourself. Someday someone will very much appreciate that. For now, just concentrate on friends and school, etc.
I know it's hard to hear that you don't need to worry about this at your age, but it's true. I understand that you really want a boyfriend, want to have that connection. But there's lots of time. And when it does happen, it will be worth the wait! Hang in there!
2006-08-08 06:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by wyo_me 2 · 8⤊ 3⤋
I had many boyfriends, before I was 13. but they all sucked. reason being is because they didn't know themself and I didn't know what I wanted in a boy. Don't fret over guys. Shyness is my nature too. But later on, you might like girls, or both guy and girl, or none at all and just want to be alone. try not to let pressure get to you, I know its hard but you'll be happier in the end. once you do get a boyfriend, in the future, let him come to you, don't search for one, if one comes along than let they guy be with you if there's an attraction. Right now though isn't the best age to find a boyfriend, you'll just get dumped and hurt because the guys are too immature for that age. let them come to you and accept the ones that you like the best. when you are in your 20's you'll be more aware of your likes and dislikes in men, but don't take too many relationships seriously, it hurts when you fall in love and are let go. experiment with the variety that is before you, but throw the catch back into the sea if its no good. remember that. hope I helped a little.
2006-08-08 06:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by teardrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just throw yourself out there. And if doen't work don't worry. It's gonna happen. And if your not ready don't push it. A kiss will come along with a boyfriend. I didn't have a real boyfriend till I was 13 to.
2006-08-08 06:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlin Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're older. I've know women that are almost 30 who've never had a boyfriend.....but that's a whole other subject.
Concentrate on your education and becoming a confident, independant, kind, personable woman. You will then have your choice of persuers.
2006-08-08 06:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 and I've only had ONE serious relationship! So?
You're 13...chill out and relax. Do you think that you'll meet someone that you can spend the rest of your life with when you're 13?
Stop watching so many movies. They aren't real accounts of life.
2006-08-08 06:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until your 15 and then dont worry about it. clarification wait til you are married before giving away the only thing that counts, yourself, but wait until your a sophmore in high school before going out with any boys. thats how it was done in the old neighborhood. p.s. dont believe the hype thereis more to this world , this life , than what everybody else is doing.
2006-08-08 06:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r only 13 dont worry about it ik girls that are 17 and have never had a bf just wait one will come i promise
2006-08-08 06:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by gbo1907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here, all contact u and tell cuz I'm 13 to, alright have a good day!
2006-08-08 06:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by baberuth2222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Thirteen is very young, go out have fun with your friends and don't worry if you have a boyfirend, you're only young once and you have your whole adult life to worry about a boyfriend.
2006-08-08 06:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by East of Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoudn't have a boyfriend at this age. Have fun. I didn't start dating until I was 16.
2006-08-08 06:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sam468 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋