2006-08-08 06:47:36 · 13 answers · asked by sapphiresunstar 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
He turns 5 in December. I feel he is actually starting late. I have two older girls, but my son is very clingy.
2006-08-09 02:13:16 · update #1
GO the the school a couple of days early, have her to talk meet the teacher start talking to her about what she will be doing. Tell her you won't be there but she will have a lot of fun. play school with her and let her teach you. Know she may start crying the first time you leave but she will stop after she can't see you anymore. Don't forget to tell her you will be back. If she has some fear doing the day maybe ask the teacher if she can call you just to hear your voice that my calm her down.
2006-08-08 06:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by hotcandysmacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, take him to school and meet his teacher and visit the classroom. Bonus points if there's other kids in the class he knows or meets then.
Start the routine for getting out the door now - like wake up times, breakfast, etc. It'll make getting up and getting going easier then.
2006-08-08 08:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the child to meet the teacher, maybe even observe a class. You can act excited at his accomplishment of starting school. kids get there cues from the adults. If they sense apprehension or fear, they will pick up on that too.
2006-08-08 17:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by magicalblessing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start introducing your 4 year old to the school. Take him/her by the school, explain that they are gonna go learn and play with friends there and also be sure to explain that you are going to drop them off but you are going to come back and pick them up. They may cry but believe me they will get used to it.
2006-08-08 06:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tinkz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would be able to be positive yet you need to coach her for the college year. Get her to attend day care or different activities which will help her adjust to being separated from you. it may additionally be helpful for her in case you locate an excellent sort of possibilities for socialization so as that she would be able to have not have been given any situation getting alongside with different young babies. it somewhat is going to take time for babies to conform with college, even nevertheless it somewhat is going to help an excellent sort of you perform a little sort of training for the coming near college year.
2016-09-29 01:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your asking this question, it looks like you have had problems with your child and letting her go before, maybe it's you who's worried she's growing up, or her being shy and velcroed to you. I suggest you teach her on how to interact with people so she's not alone, and for you, parents are all worried about children growing up. DEAL WITH IT, you have her for another 14+ years!
2006-08-08 09:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, don't delay. If your child is anxious and crying for you or won't let go, quickly peel them off, give a quick kiss, and be off, the longer you stay the more worked up they get,
2006-08-08 08:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him/her that they are going to have a lot of fun and that they are going to make lots of friends. And also reassure them that mommy will always be there, not in person, but if you need mommy I will be there in a heart beat. Tell your child about your experience, how fun it was. This might work. Good Luck!
2006-08-08 06:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by lady love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We helped my daughter by having her chose a small bookbag to put her extra clothes in.. Maybe stick around the first day behind the scenes...
Good Luck!
2006-08-08 07:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by nknicolek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont make a big deal out of it or the child will get anxious.
2006-08-08 08:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋