Should I break up wiyh my boyfriend I've dated happily for 2 years?

Question

I've dated my boy friend for 2 years. Since our senior year in high school. Things have been great until now. He hisself hasnt called me since he went a school 3 hours south. He was there another time and always called me. He hasnt mailed me at all and I mailed him 3 letters and stamps. he kinda complained about me texting him on his cell, so I mailed him $10 and he never said thanks. His sister was there before, but notr now so I don't know if he has changed. All I can think about is if I should breakup with him. I love him. He said, "I love you" first. His parents are great and his sister too. They really like me. I'm pretty close with his sister. I wonder if I do break up with him, they won'y like me any more. 85% of people are telling me I should. Bat until now he's been there for me. I love him dearly. His given and made me such sweet things. I don't know what's the right idea. Wondering about breaking up is the only thing I can think of. I don't know. he's been my Prince Charming

Answer 1

I'm sorry to say, but he's just not that in to you anymore. Any man that truly means the words "I LOVE YOU" will move mountans to show and prove it to you. You've simply been dating the wrong one. Sometimes life is like that. You really don't know you've been with the wrong one right away. It's like a new pair of shoes. You see them, they look really cute and you try them on because you HAVE TO HAVE THEM!! You bring them home, and you show them off to everyone. Everyone loves them too. You wear them everywhere, but notice every now and then they just don't seem to fit right. Suddenly, you are getting blisters and they become irritating. You just can't wear them any more, so you give them away or hide them in the back of your closet. You just picked the wrong pair of shoes. Does this make sense?

If he has not contacted you, I'm afraid that no answer, IS your answer. Forgive him for being a man of less character than you thought, pick up the pieces of your heart, grieve, and move on. Surround yourself with family and friends. Get involved with other activities, or continue your education. Do not let this stop you from living. Be happy with yourself, and learn to that you do not NEED someone to make you happy, you are responsibile for that. Your light will attract others who will see that, and want to be with you, 100 %, and will always let you know that.

I'm sorry you are hurting, but the best thing you can do, is set him free, and live your life. You will eventually find peace in doing so. Best wishes to you.

Answer 2

Let me clear something up for you. Your Prince Charming is off at school right now getting laid as much as possible and getting wasted and waking up with chicks he doesn't even know. Why isn't he calling you? Because he doesn't want to. Why is he not writing? Because it's hard to write while someone else is giving you head. Why did he complain about texting? Because he got tired of your texts interrupting him when he was trying to hook up. If you had half a brain you would dump him and move on with your life.

Answer 3

If you haven't heard from him then I believe you already have your answer. It sounds like he has probably already moved on since he is not attempting to communicate with you and your attempts to reach him have failed. A TXT MSG every now and then wouldn't hurt anything so why would he complain if he really wanted to hear from you? Hopefully if you want to stay friends with the family and they really feel the same way about you then that will not change. There is no way to tell for sure, but it sounds like he may have already made this decision for you. I would recommend you make another attempt to speak with him and express your concerns before making any decisions though.

Answer 4

ask him what he wants, because he obviously doesn't want to be with you. If you get him to break up with you, then you're not the bad guy. Make it clear that you will not be waiting around while he's doing as he pleases. If you were so happy in this relationship, you would not be asking this question. Either fix the problem or break up. Good luck! PS: make sure you end things on a friendly note that way there won't be hard feelings with his family or him!

Answer 5

split with him. he's amazingly impolite and likely will under no circumstances substitute. do not waste a at the same time as on someone like that. discover someone who's more effective acceptable and could manage you more effective acceptable. reliable success.

Answer 6

Talk to him. If he doesn't want to talk about it, give him a couple different chances to talk, then break up with him.

You could always talk to his sister and get her honest advise.
Good Luck

Answer 7

IT WOULD BE MY GUESS HE HAS FOUND SOMEONE AT SCHOOL. IF HE DOESNT BREAK UP WITH YOU IT'S BECAUSE HE WANTS HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO.