My b/f went out with someone else when we were going out and he never told me.I had to find out from his new g/f that we were over.Should i still talk to him?
2006-08-08 06:32:01 · 23 answers · asked by chelsrenee13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i appreciate your help!!!
2006-08-08 09:07:19 · update #1
Nope, If I found out my gf cheated on me we would be over instantly. I don't believe in second chances, I believe however that if they do it once they could do it again.
2006-08-08 06:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend went through the same thing, i got my own prob w/ my bf...but thats one thing id make sure. My bf would never do that. I know that much, but I think you should just move on...show him your better then him, and your life doesn't revolve around him, in other words, find you a new man!!! ;) show him off!! you can do it and yeah talk to him...about ur new bf! and let that be it
2006-08-08 13:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!! Are you crazy? He went out with someone else and you think you can still talk to him? You are a very good person!!!
2006-08-08 13:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by oppa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much resolution do you want? if you want full closure on the subject you need to say something to him by whatever means you feel comfortable: email, face to face, phone call, letter, etc.
if you find it easy to let him go (though you may be very displeased with his actions) then perhaps saying nothing to him would be your best bet, since there's nothing you can do to change him...you can only change your reactions and responses to him
2006-08-08 13:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by an_articulate_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him? He's dumped you. Get over it. Find someone new. He obviously doesn't care about you. How hard is that to figure out.
2006-08-08 13:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, it was his lost. Tell him that you have made a lot of plans for the coming year and he was't in any of them. And good luck with his new choice.
2006-08-08 13:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is with this other girl and not you then no move on it seems he has made his choice find someone who will appreciate you.Good luck
2006-08-08 13:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what?
Your bf cheated on you and never had the balls to break up with you. What could you possibly have to talk about?
2006-08-08 13:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes keep normal with him, get an other b/f , and let him find it out by him self.
hurt him as he did that to you
2006-08-08 13:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by boiling boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to, he obviously does'nt have enough repect for you to break up with you before seeing some one else, so have enough respect for your self to NOT call him.
2006-08-08 13:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by kallel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋