I am going out with this guy.
he just dumped me because I won't let him touch my private parts.
I really love him.
i am very desperate.
I am pretty.
what's wrong with not letting somebody not touch their private parts?
2006-08-08 06:29:25 · 16 answers · asked by ruby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have done nothing wrong. If he cannot accept your modesty, he is NOT worth having. Good for you for standing up for your beliefs, and your body. Too many young people are bullied in to this, and end up in rather delicate situations, if you know what I mean. You showed great courage and above all, CLASS. Do not be desperate. There is no rush for all this activity. You will experience it when the time is right, and hopefully for you, with someone who will actually deserve your attention. He obviously did not "love" you, and was only after ONE thing. Since he couldn't get that, he moved on. Let him go, and continue to RESPECT yourself. He did not do so.
2006-08-08 06:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go. If he wont except the facts that you aren't ready for the kind of relationship then he is a total drip. He wants you just for sex so you shouldn't bother with him. If you are desperate then try talking to your friends to maybe set you up a date with someone you know. Or you can meet guys EVERYWHERE! try a coffee shop. And the best thing to do is find a guy in your school or area that you know is a nice person and don't hesitate to ask if they want to go out sometime. TAKE THE PLUNGE!
2006-08-08 13:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by saying no. He apparently was going out with you for one thing and one thing only. When you let him know it wasn't going to happen he left.
Do you really miss him or do you miss having a bf? Sometimes people think that belonging to someone, anyone, is better than being alone. This is not a true love if that is how you feel.
Your bf was using you to get sex. He may love you to, just not completely. Don't give in to his pressure. Stand up for yourself!
2006-08-08 13:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dumped you for that then he is not the one. Now it will be hard because you do like him but others will come.
And just because your desperate doesnt mean you should settle for him. Go for who you know 100% is right.
2006-08-08 13:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by greener 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off waiting for someone who can wait for you to be ready. You need to get a little older and realize what love really is.
2006-08-08 13:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dumped you because of that, he didn't love you. He just wanted to get down your pants. Your better off without him.
2006-08-08 13:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats good of you for not letting him take advantage of you like that. but i dont think he likes you that much if he broke up with you because of that. honestly i think you are dumb for loving a person like that...it's obvious that he only wanted one thing...think about it and maybe you will grow a brain and come to you senses. move on and don't worry about him...he's not worth it.
2006-08-08 13:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i would have dumped him too.
any guy thats trying to go to 3rd base isnt worth it.
2006-08-08 13:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok heres the deal: u dont need someone like that. its good that u didn't let him. just move on cuz u DESERVE BETTER!!!
2006-08-08 13:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you will have to find someone else who can what until you are ready.
2006-08-08 13:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋