Logic question?

Question

For years now I've been single (4 years, 2 months, and 14 days to be exact) now, I don't really care much anymore, but I always had a question I wanted to ask about this. Now I'm almost perfectly fine with being single, even for the rest my life, but people repeatedly tell me that if I want a g/f, that all should do is "wait", now where exactly did the logic from that come from? I don't go outside at all exact to go to work, and if there is a bill I can't pay online (I don't even order pizza over the phone!).
If I actually did want a g/f, how exactly would just sitting around doing nothing help me get one? Or would the more logical question, would be to get off my ***, and actually do something...well duh, that shouldn't be to hard to figure out for anyone.
Furthermore, what exactly is the people that when they hear, on I don’t have a g/f its been a while, they go awwww. Wow that must really suck…on and on. Gee if people are this stupid I’m not sure why anyone actually goes into

actually goes into a relationship at all, not like it takes a relationship to give a reason to live, now does it?

Answer 1

No, you don't have to have a relationship to carry on. It depends on what you want in life. If you do want a relationship or to meet and date, you have to be out there doing things in order to meet someone. No, they don't come knocking on your door, but neither do jobs, etc. Probably what people mean by waiting is that it takes time to meet the person for you. Do you have a social anxiety, because if you do you will tend to shut yourself off from the rest of the world. There is medication for that and if this is the case, I would be making a dr's appt. so you become alot more comfortable being with people.

Answer 2

Well you are right. You don't have to date anyone to be happy. And they are idiots for saying "wait" and you will get a g/f. Well obviously you will get one in the future if at all so waiting is all you can do. Thats not a logical answer if you want a g/f. If you want one you should go out and be social, but not force anything on any girls. That way you are exposed to women and have a higher probability of meeting someone you might like. Sitting in your house will lower the chances of meeting a potentially stalkerish web g/f. I would recommend going out with friends, telling those who do "awww" to shove it, and have fun. No pressure to get a g/f now, you got plenty of time. Enjoy being single.

Answer 3

Well when they say to wait...they mean that if you go to a party or something and like someone go for it. But don't try to force it with blind dates.

And those who go awwww are the girls right? Yeah well I know exactly what you mean. But they say it must suck because the only time period that girls are single is after a break up and that time is rough so them being single is rough. But don't worry about it...Like you said being single is okay...but you will date again...your love life isnt completely dead

Answer 4

For starters, don't listen to negative things people say about being single.

You do however have to get out there and make an effort. Last time I checked, single women stopped going door to door looking for love.

Good luck to you.

Answer 5

I think your friends are using an old take on the concept that many relationships happen when you least expect them.

Consider though, when you are at your best, when you are your happiest, people are attracted to you and your "up" attitude. Relationships bloom where there is positivity.

Answer 6

People say that because they don't know what else to say.
Right along with "There's somebody for everybody!" If you are happy being single, screw everybody else! If you do care, you are either going to have to get out more or you could try online
dating.

Answer 7

i say you just don't look for it but don't stop living just don't always expect love in the next person if it happens cool if not cool you made a friend

Answer 8

you need to find a life outside of work and home.

Answer 9

go to the bar and have a drink...you sound way too consistant
Live a little

Answer 10

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