actyally i am well educated and cultured however i got very confused when guys try to talk to me or express admiration. i want to know how to deal wz a guy on a first date .secondly how to deal wz males in general ...how can i be attractive in a decent way? finally,i want real serious and practical answers....thank you.
2006-08-08 06:09:26 · 10 answers · asked by capinera m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound you are not educated at all.
2006-08-16 02:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially, really funny & outgoing guys seem more attractive than a guy who cant come up with anything cute to say, but afterwards, a guy who can never have a serious talk gets really annoying. Personally, I would rather get to know a guy that I can have a serious conversation with than a guy who jokes about everythinggg. But you have to have some sort of balance, you cant be completely serious all the time, or that gets boring too. Im sure that once you get to know someone you'll be more comfortable with them and joke more.
2016-03-27 03:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, first of all be yourself. Don't ever be phoney or try to be someone that you think someone wants you to be. Pick your best asset, and work with it . Guys love nice girls but not too nice. Smile a lot and make him feel like he is important and what he's saying is interesting.You'll know within the first 10 min. if he's your type or if he's even worth your time. And if he's not there so many more men out there. Mr. Right will come along and you will know exactly what to do.
2006-08-08 06:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by drea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I think to be decent you must tell the truth from the start, therefore you must be yourself as much as possible of course don't tell them everything on the first date it will take time but don't change your beliefs and personality to win them over.
2006-08-08 06:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey just dress decent smell decent and look decent the man will start talking and you'll know just what to say
2006-08-08 06:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself...Don't try to be something your not because then you are giving him false ideas...Just talk about something like your job, your dreams etc..
He is probably just as scared as you so just let it happen..It won't be that bad
2006-08-08 06:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress comfortably and express yyourself and maybe a perfume to put on. talk? maybe tell about yourself i dont know
2006-08-15 11:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Charmagne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and if he can't handle that, then you didn't need him anyways. if he can and the two of you connect, then go for it. remember, be honest and true to yourself and live without any regrets.
2006-08-16 03:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by Nickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let him ask the first question,you'll be fine.
2006-08-16 01:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by sunrisewave360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just yea
2006-08-16 06:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋