There isnt any concrete proof. just intuition. He's acting different and not as attentive as he usually is. We only been together for a few months.
2006-08-08 06:04:59 · 25 answers · asked by APpl3 B0tt0m -n- APpl3 Vall3y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. He will just lie anyway if he is. If you think he is then he probably is.
2006-08-08 06:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what that is a sign of a guy cheating, but then again it could be something else. One of the other things it could be is that he is starting to loose interest in you and is waiting for you to say something and keep saying sonething till u can't take it any more and just break up with him. The thing about it is that, thats what he want you to do. The best way to ask him is just ask him in general how he think the relationship is going and ask him to be honest. If he has hesitation or if he says okay then its something wrong and he could be cheating or looking for some one else. Guys won't stay in a relationship if it's not GOOD and if they do it would be for others reasons instead of really wanting be with you.
2006-08-08 13:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by black beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask not that he is going to turn around and say "yes I am". He might be like this as he has a few things on his mind. Maybe you are getting crossed wires as you two have been together for a few months he might not want to be kissing and cuddling all the time now. Dont know if I have helped in any way - sorry. Good luck
2006-08-08 13:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you ask him other things that might lead to the info you're looking for.
You seem preoccupied, what's going on with you?
You know, if you ever decided this wasn't working out for you, it'd be okay for you to say so.......
Maybe we should spend less time together. I get the feeling that you aren't as interested in our time together as you used to be, and I don't want to feel like an anchor, so, what if I told you that we should take a break, and try this another time?
Good luck
2006-08-08 13:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-ROCK nailed this one. Why not repost the question with more details. All relationships hit a comfort level. It is not realistic to expect the same amount of attention as in the start of the dating process. You got to get to the root of what you you feel you are lacking. Guys often will ignor you untill you break-up with them.
2006-08-08 13:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bring up the subject of mutual respect in a relationship and how he would feel if you cheated on him then ask him after the whole..id go crazy routine........what would you feel like if he did it to you and how your idea of a respectful and honorable man has loyalty as a trait..........if he squirms or tries to avoid the issue.you got your answer..if he is really a good player he will smoothly ease out of the situation. but if you have trust issues now is the time to address them.
2006-08-08 13:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be enough trust that you would never even think he was cheating on you, if there's not then there is a problem. Ask him, see how he reacts, but if you really think that, leave him. Not trying to be harsh, but if you stay with someone who you think is cheating on you, even if they're not, it will make you insecure, lower your self esteem, and many other things, which could actually lead to depression. Good luck.
2006-08-08 13:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy8722 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is very important in a relationship so don't ignore your intuition.You ask jokingly by saying Honey I notice you're acting indifferent and not attentive nowadays or is there someone else? whatever his response, try on your part to more attentive,attractive and understanding without taking any offense about his attitude.
2006-08-08 13:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by sankara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the usual questions. how was your day? what did you do? first you need to find out if hes cheating on you. b/c if you start becoming angry and annoying to him about where hes been all day, theres a good chance youll break up. and that would suck even when he prob. wasnt cheating on you
2006-08-08 13:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by some jersey kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him... that will be an issue... because if he is.. he will lie, and if he isnt he will be insulted.... and either way you will still think that he is cheating... try and address the issues that you have... and if they get better great, if not, dump him and move on...
2006-08-08 13:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by E-Rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you've been acting differently lately and I keep feeling that something isn't right. Are you cheating on me?
2006-08-08 13:08:50 · answer #11 · answered by Hello,It'sMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋