how to win a guy back?

Question

idk if he's taken but i want him

Answer 1

I must ask you this question. If he left you for someone else, then why would you want him back? He has already made it very clear to you that you were not the one he wanted when he left. All the tears, begging and pleading most likely will not work. And, if by some small chance it did, neither one of you would be happy. He would feel trapped, and would be moody, and you would both have arguments. You'd be happy over your "victory", but then would resent him because he was always "unhappy". Plus, think about this other person he's involved with. If HE left you, and went to her, it's not necessarily her fault, and you'd be hurting an innocent victim. It's a vicious circle, and one that you are best to avoid. You must look within yourself, and respect yourself enough, to never ever go crawling to anyone, and to settle for half of what you could possibly have "whole" with someone else. You need to come to terms that he just wasn't that in to you, and has moved on. You need to give yourself the same feeling. Take some time to grieve over the loss of the relationship. That is ok. Learn to be happy with yourself. Get involved in other activities. Surround yourself with caring friends, and be active. Soon, you will not think of him as often, and your feelings of anguish and pain will diminish. Trust me. Above all, remember to respect feelings, including your own. Have class, and simply walk away. It may be the hardest thing for you to do, but you will feel better, knowing that you did what you could, it didn't work out, and that you simply wish him the best, and let him go. In that, you will also free yourself of the pain, and feelings of being used. You will hopefully find the ability to forgive him, (another VERY hard thing to do,) but again, trust me, you'll feel so relieved later, when you look back on this. When you are truly happy within yourself, you will emanate a light that will shine outwardly, and others will see and be attracted by it. Stay strong, let him go, and move on. Good luck to you!

Answer 2

Act like you could careless about getting him back. If he sees that you are really happy and excited about life he will take a second look at you. The worst thing you can do is mope around like your life is over crying and begging him to come back. Get all dolled up invite your best girl friends out and make sure he sees you. If you catch him looking at you be nice and friendly but nothing else! make him come to you. Be cool, classy, chic.
If it doesn't make him think twice about why he let you get away it may catch you a new and even better guy!

Answer 3

If he is taken dont bother. Since you said back Im assuming you did something to lose him. Maybe its a good thing you lost him. You cant make your past your future. Move on.

Answer 4

If you are smart, you will leave him alone. Even if you do catch his attention he could just start using you for sex or something. He won't respect you if you come in between him and his girl. He'll think that you are just a selfish whore that has absolutely no morals and that doesn't deserve him. Back away. It could really backfire on you.

Answer 5

First you have to ask why you want him back? If you don't really care about him but don't want him to give any attention to someone else than you have to leave him alone. Move on.

Answer 6

you do things that he like in a women or becoming a perfect women to him.
but are you sure you want to be someone else and not to be yourself. honey not any men worthly enough to make you a dofferent people. i think there's many men out there who will love you the way you are. just be what you want

Answer 7

If he's taken, the move on. Be a person of honor.... don't take what's not yours.

Answer 8

If you really want him back then you have to show him that you don't need him back.

Answer 9

throw yourself in the most sexual way u can think of right at him. it never fails. you will be an official slut though. sorry. good luck

Answer 10

get some relationship training