i wanna no cuz i had a boi friend 4 3 years then he got killed and its been a whole year almost and i am still single what should i do becuz all the other guys that tried talkin to me we didnt connect
2006-08-08 05:56:07 · 41 answers · asked by babygurl391 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just give love time thats all you have to do
2006-08-08 05:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright hun, I read your profile and found that you are 15 years old. That being said, yes you will find love again. Just give it time.. you are so young and you went through such a tragic thing that people your age shouldn't have to endure. Maybe if you're not connecting with any guys right now try surrounding yourself with a lot of friends that care about you and concentrate on your family. This may help you connect with other guys and be able to let go of your old boyfriend. 15 is young to be looking for the "right" person.. you need to have fun and enjoy your life as your own before you start looking for your soulmate. My little sister just turned 15 and granted she had a boyfriend for the last 3 months, but he's not her whole life. She makes sure she has other interests and hobbies and she knows now that if they broke up she would be okay.. and that's it.. you'll be okay.
2006-08-08 06:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by moonshadow385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will if you want to. But first, try all you can to forget about the past because it is gone although it is difficult if you're really in love then, but you just have to let it be bye gone since there is nothing you can do about it.And please don't do the mistake of comparing any other guy to your former one. Sweetheart, allow yourself to be love and look for a good guy that will take you out of shell you are.
2006-08-08 06:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by sankara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you're not connecting is that you havn't gotten over your grief yet. Love isn't something you "fall into," its something you make happen.
See a counselor and get some help. Then it'll be easier to "connect" again.
2006-08-08 05:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully
2006-08-08 05:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mischa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, u will. but someone special has to come along, someone who connects w/ you, someone u can trust, w/ all ur heart. that is not going to be easy to find, but that makes it that much more worth it.
but u have to work on urself first. what kind of person are u? are u confident that you are a loving, trusting, beautiful, kind girlfriend? work on ur confidence in ur abilities to be the best girlfriend u can be. now, set some expecations for what kind of boy u want. he has to be good enough, right? he has to be kind, loving, honest, sincere, and positive, right? if u are confident that u are a great person, it will help u keep up ur expecations, and filter out anyone who is negative, is not willing to listen or learn, who is not kind or caring enough for your needs. that way u will be able to keep positive, supportive, loving people around u, and bad, negative, selfish, or just stagnant people out of ur life. work on urself, exercise, take care of urself; feel beautiful. work on ur mind, study, learn, discuss, read the news, etc. be able to carry a conversation w/ anyone, friends, family and strangers. when u start meeting new people, ur confidence will help u be urself, and show ur good personality off. if u are positive and happy and confident, u will attract those kinds of people. and u can use that to filter out the negative people, by observing their actions and words and keeping up ur expectations..for urself, and for them. u are wonderful, so u deserve someone wonderful. if it takes a long time, so be it.... it's worth it to really find someone who truly understands and cares for u so much that they want the best for you.
2006-08-08 06:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look inside your self and ask your self "Have i really ever gotton over him?" I mean if you think about it, maybe its not that you and your new boyfriends didnt connect, maybe its just that your didnt allow yourself to because your afraid to fall back in love and loose someone again. Take it slow. Maybe your not ready to love again. Maybe its just that simple.
2006-08-08 06:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Amber:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out about compatability from astrology and keep trying. Udate is a good site and Yahoo. Dont give up. You probably will love again in time. Have certain criteria they must meet. Otherwise dont waste your time. for me it was
NONSMOKERS no furry pets, certain height etc. No short ones.
2006-08-08 06:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever seen white noise?its about this wife that died and the husband went to this other guy that can talk to the ded.but then these other gosts were pounding and making the speakers pound!!but then the gosts stared saying stuff and started calling him bad words!and then the wifes cell phone rang.but the girl was ded how can that be?but then he rushed home and his phone rang again and it was the ded girl but he had her cell phone in his hand.that was turned off!!!!!
2006-08-08 06:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Munster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you will hunny,,, Trust me it's the hardest thing to do,, getting over someone that you really care about,, but over time you'll get tired of hurting over and over for the same reason and you'll get back out there agian..... Sad to say out of everything in this world thats hurtful love hurts like no other... Just give it time,, and don't be so upset to get angery, anger will set you feel.......... Cheers hunny............
2006-08-08 06:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my entire life I never "connected" with anyone I dated until last year. That "connection" is very important for love to last. Don't settle for anything less or you will regret it.
2006-08-08 06:01:12 · answer #11 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋