I know my boy probably wouldnt sleep with a stripper, or at least I`d like to think he wouldnt. I was reading a question asked earlier about it being tradional for guys to do this, and it made me feel really sick. Does antbody else feel the same? Or do I just care too much?
2006-08-08 05:51:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
He would no longer be my fiance if he slept with someone the night before the wedding. If I ever found out I would be PISSED! That's not okay. Not just for the emotional reasons of being betrayed, but that's gross. What if he got an STD that night and passed it to you? Wouldn't you be pissed if you never knew that was a risk and then got the STD?
2006-08-08 05:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is were does this so called tradition come from that men sleep with a stripper on his stag night, I think its a made up fantasy for those who think its the thing to do, thank god my hubby wasn't a fantasy liver cause he would have had another bit of stripping post stag do, stripped of his engagement ring and dignity, its sick and the ones who let their men get away are so stupid, what excuse will he give his wife when the kids are born, oh its OK love all men sleep with a lap dancer after the first born. yes you care but always care too much like you do and good luck.
2006-08-09 13:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and some acquaintances could stand as a lot as mischief in spite of everything you heavily isn't unmarried a lot longer and look at were given the want to make the a large type of the time you've left as a unmarried guy. Get accessible and misbehave. The wilder to more effective acceptable. it is going to likely be something to look back on and keep in recommendations the reliable previous days. lol
2016-11-23 16:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by tornese 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone, bride or groom, who feels like being sexually faithful to their partner is going to be some sort of sacrifice and hardship is someone who isn't ready for marriage. You're ready for marriage when leaving the 'freedom' of single life behind doesn't seem like a hardship at all, but is something you're pleased and happy about because you've found something better.
The groom's role at his bachelor party is to show his buddies a good time while himself being the good natured butt of jokes. If he considers this party to be his "golden opportunity" to behave badly, you can bet he is going to be construing every possible circumstance into yet another "golden opportunity" -- in short, even before the wedding he is determined to be a philanderer. Better to call off the wedding at the last minute than to be stuck with a fellow who wants the advantages of HAVING a wife, but has no intention of BEING a husband.
(And ditto for brides who want "one last fling" with an old flame or something before "it's too late" -- don't walk, RUN away from such a partner.
2006-08-08 07:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? no decent guy would sleep or even touch a stripper on his stag night. My husband didnt even go to a strip club or have a stripper at his party. I didnt either. Neither of us believe in it. We dont think its right. I'm not going to argue my feelings on strippers, but if you feel your guy might do this then you need to talk to him because its not right or normal.
2006-08-08 11:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he's going to cheat he'll do it before his stag night, and if you mistrust your guy enough that you think he even MIGHT do something like that, you probably better put the brakes on the wedding. Consider that any guy who cheats on you once WILL cheat on you again, and decide whether or not he's the kind of guy you really want to be tied to for the rest of your life.
2006-08-08 06:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, ill enough to cancel the wedding. He's made a comittment to you, and making it with a stripper (and possibly contracting God only knows what STD along the way) is just as wrong as it gets. It would be a deal breaker for me.
2006-08-08 06:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on the person.... It doesn't bother me.... I trust my FI and I know he won't do anything that he would regret. Lets face it- If he's the type that's going to sleep with a stripper then what's stopping him from cheating and ect....
it's funny but I think my FI is more worried about me looking at male strippers LOL
2006-08-08 06:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is cheating if a guy does that and I wouldn't want to marry someone that would do that. It should make you feel ill to think of your fiance doing that. It's just gross and disrespectful. was lucky and my husband chose to go on a fishing trip for his bachelor party. I know he wouldn't do anything, and all of his friends are good guys, but I don't even like the idea of him getting lap dances from anybody but me.
2006-08-08 09:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't make you feel sick I would say that he was the wrong person for you because you didn't care enough!
It does the same for me, although it's almost impossible to imagine - it's just about the last thing I would expect my fiancé to ever do.
2006-08-08 10:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋