EVERYTHING IS GOOD BUT LIKE I SAID WE DON'T HAVE SEX. I DON'T KNOW IF HE'S CHEATING OR WHAT. WE MOVED IN TOGETHER ABOUT 8 MONTHS AGO, AND IT SEEMS LIKE EVER SINCE WE MOVED IN WE DON'T HAVE SEX ANYMORE. I'M NOT FAT, I'M NOT UGLY, I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT IS. I NEVER HAD A COMPLAIN. HE SAYS HES NOT A SEXUAL PERSON. WHAT DO I DO? IF I TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO ASK. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-08 05:36:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you stink down there
2006-08-08 05:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for you to have a good relationship there has to be everything but for me is the other way around I really dont have a good communication with my girl but damn we have the best sex in the world so maybe that is what keeps us together whe get mad and before you know it whe are having sex so maybe he is not sexually active or he is gay think about it for eight months no sex damn I will just go crazy if I go a couple of days without sex
2006-08-08 05:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same situation with my boyfriend of 5 years...We moved in together about 4 months ago and because of our work schedules we were never home at the same time and when we were home, one of us was always too tired. I suggest talking to him about it, if you have been together for awhile you should be comfortable talking about this with him. Maybe you guys need to spice it up a little in bed-or perhaps he is just exhausted or stressed out. If you really want to know what's going on-ask!
2006-08-08 05:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by pipsqueak8756 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably grew tired of having sex with you. It happens constantly when people move in together. There's no challenge to it so it becomes another chore. Sort of like "oh gee, its 9, guess its time to ****." You would be better off asking him what his problem is right now instead of the rest of the world.
2006-08-08 05:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you but we have the same problem he tells me that his not into sex but here I am finding in the internet history that his been checking chicks with big **** and i don't know what else we broke-up last year and told I wont put up with it and reconciled again I know he loves me but you should not stay in that relationship Iive been with this guy for 5 years either there is something wrong with them don't get stuck with the guy his not worth it.....there are better guys out there..or ask yourself if you are willing to live with it!
2006-08-08 05:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lady_J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and him had a great sex life before you and im move in then maybe you need to move back out sounds to me like he's cheating or just isn't a sex person
2006-08-08 05:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend went through a situation just like that. Turns out the guy had herpes and didnt want to put her at risk and he didnt want to lose her either. Simply ask him whats going on. If everything is truly good he will tell you whats wrong.
2006-08-08 05:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by ariola2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's gay or he definitely has something going on the side and is just using you to help pay for a place to live. Time to move out I'd say.
2006-08-08 05:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy. You have been together for a long time and live together, that's why. You could be the hottest girl in the world, but after a while a guy craves "the strange." It's nothing against you...it's just that he's been there, done that and done it again.
2006-08-08 05:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He could be telling the truth when he says he isnt sexual. Some people just arent. Doesnt mean there is anything wrong with you or that they are cheating it just is what it is.
2006-08-08 05:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just not sexual like that all i can say about talking to him about it is tell him you feel like he's just not interested and you need more then he has given and try to find a happy middle for the both of you
2006-08-08 05:40:12 · answer #11 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋